An Ancient Path | #GOALS Week 1

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- Hey, everyone, I'm Hannah

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and I'm a part of making experiences here at Crossroads.

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- And my name is Kyle.

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I'm the community pastor for Crossroads Church online,

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which means it's my job to help take care of you.

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We'd love the chance to do that this year.

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- Yeah. Welcome to Crossroads Church.

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Maybe this is your first time joining

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or maybe you were here for Christmas.

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We are so glad that you are here.

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And we want to extend a special welcome to you.

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Well, today we're getting started

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in a new series title #goals.

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- Did I do that right? Is it this way?

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- You did that, that's it, boom.

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- Does it matter?

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- You know what? It probably does.

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It does. It does matter.

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So glad you're here.

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- In this series, we are going to help

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you and I get to where we want to this year,

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which is to a better place.

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Because the truth is, for a lot of us,

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last year it wasn't that great.

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So we want to get to a better place.

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The question is: how do you get there?

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I don't know if you've noticed this,

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but every commercial, every everything

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is offering the path to a better life.

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I saw a commercial for our blender

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that promised me a better life yesterday.

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- Yes.

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- I almost went for it, but I decided not to

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because here's the thing.

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Life doesn't come from following the latest fad

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It doesn't?

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But life is possible, a better life,

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newer life, fresher life. It's possible.

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But the new thing, it turns out,

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comes from following the old path.

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So old that it's ancient.

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That's what we're digging into this series:

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the ancient path that always leads to life.

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We're going to get started with that

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right now with our senior pastor, Brian Tome.

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- Hey, I'm Brian, welcome to Crossroads.

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We're going to talk today about the ancient path.

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In the Bible, Jeremiah 6:16, it says this:

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Doesn't that just sound good?

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(sighs) Find rest for your souls.

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But where do you find rest of your souls?

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You find rest for your souls

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by being on the path that God wants.

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At the crossroads you go

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the way everybody else is going.

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I drive with with my knee, by the way.

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Going the way everybody else goes

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or going the ancient path

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where there is rest for your soul.

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Life on planet Earth has changed, our faith has not.

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We can choose to follow the patterns of culture

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or we can choose a different way.

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There is incredible freedom when we let God

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elevate our thinking and our vision to new horizons.

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There's a different path that

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followers of Jesus have walked for centuries.

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I want you to walk not just today,

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for this whole year.

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The question is,

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do you want to go with new places in your life?

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If you do, you've got to follow the ancient path.

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The passage I read before was from the Book of Jeremiah.

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It's in the Old Testament.

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Then we take a look at Jesus

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who says this in Matthew 11:28:

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My yoke is easy and my burden is light.

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You know, it seems like some people

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have charmed lives, but you'll find out they don't.

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They've got major problems.

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I read a story recently in Forbes Magazine

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about Tony Hsieh, the founder of Zappos,

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bought out by Amazon years ago.

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And conservative estimates he's worth $700 million.

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And he recently died.

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They're not sure if it's overdose.

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Not sure if it's suicide, they're just not sure.

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It's an awful thing.

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This is a guy who brought a lot of people

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a lot of happiness, let alone a lot of shoes.

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And I've only got remorse for him

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and his family and everybody close to him.

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However, in this extreme case,

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often times you can find where truth is.

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Truth becomes clear in the extremes.

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He would have people over

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and he just partied nonstop in Park City, Utah.

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He had a private concert with Jewel who came over

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and she released a part of her letter,

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Forbes got a part of her letter

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to Tony Hsieh after she left him.

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She says this:

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Unfortunately, it came to a really bad end.

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I find in situations like this,

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it's interesting that the media loves --

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Loves, often times highlights mental illness.

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I think mental illness is a real thing.

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It's an awful thing.

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A lot of us struggle with it. Yes.

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But, you know, we can't just keep saying

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mental health issues

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any time somebody's life comes apart.

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We just can't do that.

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We all want to hear when someone

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has a bad life or a bad ending,

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"Oh, it was mental health, mental health."

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It's kind of like when you hear

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somebody dies of cancer, you want to hear that,

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"Well, they were a smoker, right?

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Oh, yeah, a smoker. OK, yeah."

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We want to hear mental health issues,

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we want to say, 'Well, I don't have

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a verifiable condition with mental health,

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so I don't have to worry about that happening to me."

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Yes, you do, actually. Yes, you do.

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I actually think that we pawn off

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much too much to mental health issues.

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It is very, very real.

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But I'll tell you, a lot of us think

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that someone's life falling apart

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when it's mental health issues,

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where it might just be they're on the wrong path.

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It might just be they're not on the ancient path.

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One close friend says that:

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I would love to hear someone write about this void

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and say some time he was missing a connection with God.

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There was a space in his heart, as Pascal said,

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a God shaped vacuum that only God can inhabit.

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When is someone going to say

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that we're just spiritually empty?

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When is someone going to say that

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what the world offers, it doesn't work?

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The path that we're on does not work.

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I believe there's maybe a spiritual void in you.

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I believe that you may be mentally ill

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and it may not be a chemical imbalance.

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It may be there is a spiritual imbalance in you and I.

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It may be that we are on the wrong path,

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a path that leads to emptiness

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that comes from our void-ness.

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So today, I want to talk about

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getting on a different path,

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an ancient path that actually works.

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This is why I do what I do.

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I'm the job I'm in for no other reason

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other than I want to help people.

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I want to help you.

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This world beats us down,

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sucks the life out of us.

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And I believe it's only God, it's only Jesus

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that gives you life, ultimate life.

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And so I've given my life to this

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and I'm giving my life to this series

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and to you because I want you in a better place.

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And I want to be one person who tells you

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something that other people either

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don't know to tell you or aren't willing to tell you.

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I've found people who have been awful places:

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addictions, failed suicides, divorces, bankruptcies,

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every imaginable problem you can imagine,

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and you would think that their life would end.

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But I've seen with many of those folks

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again and again and again,

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they get on an ancient path

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and God gets a hold of their life and they get life.

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They find something they couldn't have found

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before because there is a God who cares

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and a God who inhabits you

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if you get on the right path.

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Oh, that's what I'm talking about.

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That's called a video shoot.

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Yes.

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Part of my day job.

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- Brian? - Yeah.

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- Not -- not -- not that one.

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- Not this one

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- No, I'm sorry. That one.

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- That one, all right.

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- Wait. Actually, no.

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No, not -- not that one.

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We've got something special.

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- Yeah.

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- Oh, back to my old school grunt worker days, huh?

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- Yeah. - All right. Thank you.

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If you want to get to a different place this year,

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you're going to have to go

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to a different place this year

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and you're going to have to go

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on different paths than you've gone before.

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Everyone's going the same place.

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The whole masses are heading down

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this massive super highway,

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whether it's paved or a massive digital portal,

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where everybody is getting the same information,

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thinking the same things, doing the same things.

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And we're all going to a place of futility,

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a place of loneliness, a place of separation.

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We're going to have to get to

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a different place on a different path.

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And the problem is the old paths,

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they're all overgrown because no one's on them.

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They've got no foot traffic on them.

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The paths of our current culture are well-worn,

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everyone's using them.

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But we've got to choose to get on

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a different path that goes a different place.

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Next week, I'm going to be talking about the desert.

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It's a spiritual place that

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many of us find ourselves in right now.

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More of us are struggling emotionally

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and spiritually and relationally than ever before.

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I saw a recent report in the Scientific American

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that said this about the mental health

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during our pandemic:

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We are not in good shape.

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We are going on the wrong path in the wrong direction.

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And it's not just America in 2020 and 2021,

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this is the gist of how all humankind walks.

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Jesus saw these problems

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in his own people in the first century.

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In the Book of Matthew 7:13 Jesus says this:

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What are the widest and most well maintained roads?

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They're the roads with the most traffic,

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where the most people are.

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Where is the bulk of spending

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on our digital infrastructure?

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It's where everybody is.

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That's why Jesus says it's got to be a wide gate

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because everyone's going there.

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But Jesus says, "Look, look.

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I'm going in a different direction

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and I'm calling you to a different place.

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That's going to be a different path.

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There's not a lot of people on it."

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It doesn't need to be big and wide

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and superhighway and paved.

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It's a very narrow path because

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very few people choose to go there

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and very few people have the life that can come from it.

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And this path is overgrown

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because so few people are on it.

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We're going to clear path.

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How exactly do you clear a path?

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Well, I've got just the right equipment for the job.

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My whole thing for you in 2021

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is to get you on an ancient path that leads to life.

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Crossroads' whole thing is to help you

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make sense of your life, of this life,

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and all of our teaching is going

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to be focused on that this year in 2021.

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We've got to get on a path that works.

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We've got to get off the superhighway

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where all the masses are.

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We've got to get on the old ancient paths

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that actually bring life.

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And on those paths, that path itself

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is a place where things are that people don't do,

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that people don't want.

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I'm going to tell those three things are.

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First, is this: the Bible.

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The Bible says --

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That's my old Southern Baptist preacher coming out.

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(singing) The B-I-B-L-E, that's the book for me.

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I stand alone in the word of God, the B-I-B-L-E.

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Yeah, you know we can make fun of Bible songs,

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all kind of stuff, but the truth is: it simply works.

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The Bible describes itself

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in the book of 2 Timothy 3:16-17, by saying:

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That verse says that when the human.

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Authors who were penning those words,

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they were penning it with their personality

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in their cultural context, but it wasn't their opinion

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that God was breathing, He was inspiring it.

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God inspiring them and His very words

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were going down on the page as they wrote.

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When you open up your Bible,

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when you look at your screen

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that has Bible text on it,

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you're looking at the very Word of God.

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It's there to direct you, to reprove you,

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to correct you, to point you one way or the other.

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That's what it is there for.

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And it simply works.

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We are in an incredibly divided nation.

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We all know this.

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We are incredibly bifurcated.

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People on this side and people on that side.

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And whatever road you're on that's bifurcated,

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it's well-worn, it's well traveled.

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And you got all kinds of things

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that are breathing on you on your specific road.

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So for some of us, that's MSNBC or CNN.

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For others of us, that's FOX News.

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And who you're getting your news from

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is likely aligning with

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who's on your social media feed,

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which aligns with what your friends

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have on their social media feeds,

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which aligns with the books that you read,

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which aligns with the articles

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that you're exposed to,

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which aligns with the candy that you buy.

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Okay, maybe not the candy you buy,

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but can we all admit that

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all candy should have nuts in it?

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I mean chocolate is just meant to have nuts

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as God intended it.

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But we are on the superhighway that's feeding

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us something and it's feeding us emptiness.

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It's not getting us to the right place.

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I'll often times get criticized for things I say

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or things I don't say

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by people who are on their superhighway

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where all their peers are,

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instead of where I am or where I want to be,

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which is on an ancient path where there is the Bible.

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If you're not exposing yourself to the Bible

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and reading it, you're on a different path

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and you should expect that you're not going

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to like or understand something

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that somebody says who actually reads the Bible.

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Yes, I actually read the Bible.

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We are so deeply immersed

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in all these different feeds,

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all these different highways of information

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that you can't expect to understand the will of God

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if you're having like 10x more insight

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from some cultural commentator

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than you are from God himself in the Bible.

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We need to have the breath of Jesus on us

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that comes to the Bible, not the breath of Joe Rogan.

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I like Joe Rogan

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I think his podcasts are fascinating.

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But when I'm doing 3.5 hours of Joe Rogan,

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I'm not getting 3.5 hours of God.

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The preponderance of information we get

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is from people who are just chatterbox's,

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who are giving us opinions

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and aren't necessarily getting us closer to God.

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The Bible is your GPS;

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it tells you the direction you should go.

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There's things in the Bible I don't understand.

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There's things in the Bible I don't like.

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I've got a bit of a conflict with a neighbor right now.

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This neighbor did something

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that really, really bothers me.

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And I've been thinking through things

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I wanted to do to get even to get back at this person.

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I've got to be very nebulous,

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because maybe my neighbor is watching right now.

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But I'm convicted that the things

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that I want to do to get even

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or to just kind of jam it to this person,

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it's not the things that the Bible would tell me to do.

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My Bible tells me to love my neighbor as myself,

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like my actual neighbor.

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It means have warm affections towards them

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as I should have warm affections towards myself.

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The Bible is directing me which way to go,

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things I shouldn't say, things that I should say

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and our feeds are directing us

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and are not helping us see what is true, what is real.

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The Bible stands, man.

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It is the most dissected, the most criticized,

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the most studied book in the history of the world,

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and yet it still stands. Why?

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Because it freaking works, that's why.

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It takes you down the right path.

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I watched a program on Netflix,

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I recommend it highly.

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It's called Social Dilemma.

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And they just talk about how

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we're all on our super highways of information

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that are custom made to tell us what we want to hear,

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to affirm our own opinions.

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The Bible doesn't tell you what you want to hear.

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It doesn't affirm your own opinions.

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It is there to form you, to form you spiritually,

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to get you going to a new place.

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You could be Googling right now global warming

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and what will show up on the search results,

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the first couple ones are there not because

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those are the things that are scientifically true,

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but because they know those are things

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that you want to hear based on all of your other search.

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So, you can read something on global warming

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and go, "How do idiots not see this?"

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Well, because they're seeing

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totally different information that they want,

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just like you're getting information that you want

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based on all of your previous habits online.

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Friends, we've got to be smarter than this.

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It doesn't work that way.

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Get on the path where the masses aren't.

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That will be where the scriptures are,

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where God is, His Holy Word.

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I recommend not having a goal

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of reading the Bible this year.

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That's a good goal. I like that.

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It's wonderful. Wonderful.

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But if you're new to the Bible, your best option

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is to do something like download the Crossroads app

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and do the chapter in there every day like I do.

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It's part of my Bible reading.

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Or find somebody who teaches the Bible,

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who talks about it or whatever it is,

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an email that comes you that has a Bible verse.

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Don't make it huge, just do something.

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It's going to be more than you had in 2020.,

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if you're strategic and you're wise

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and you say, "I'm getting on a different path.

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I want to be a different person."

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So you're going to have to have different stimuli.

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A second, if you will, post on that ancient path

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that very few of us do is the discipline of prayer,

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talking to God.

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In the Book of Philippians 4:6, it tells us:

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The Bible says do not be anxious about anything.

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"Whoa, whoa, but global --"

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Don't be anxious about anything.

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"Wait, wait, the economy."

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Don't be anxious about it.

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"But you don't know what Joe Biden--"

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This is a commandment of God:

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How do we not be anxious about anything?

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Well, instead of thinking about

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the things that we're freaked out about,

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researching the things we're freaked out about,

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we're supposed to be thinking about God

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and talking to God.

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Here's a position you should do more in 2021.

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I don't know if you've ever done it before.

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It's the position of prayer,

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the position of humility,

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getting on your knees before God.

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It's the place of humility.

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When you're on your knees, you recognize that,

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"You are more powerful. You're above me.

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I'm lowering myself before You physically

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because I am lower than You, God, spiritually

00:22:21

and mentally and emotionally and in everything.

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I am lower and beyond You."

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When you get on your knees,

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it puts you in a posture where you should be

00:22:30

in the cosmos, which is underneath God.

00:22:33

You make your thanksgiving known to Him,

00:22:35

you tell Him what you're thankful for,

00:22:37

you tell Him how good He is

00:22:39

and you ask Him for things.

00:22:42

There was a time for me where

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I didn't want to ask God for anything.

00:22:46

I thought that God would get sick of hearing my voice.

00:22:49

Do you realize how twisted that is?

00:22:51

Any parent loves to hear the sound of their child's voice.

00:22:56

God never tires of of hearing your voice.

00:22:59

Some of us think that He does.

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Others of us think that God only has

00:23:02

so many yeses He's going to give to us in our life.

00:23:04

And he's not going to go, "Whoa, wait a minute.

00:23:06

You're asking for that. Whoo, no.

00:23:09

Because I said yes to something for you a year ago

00:23:11

and man, you're not due yet."

00:23:14

That's so sick.

00:23:15

God is the only entity who can multitask.

00:23:18

He has a mind to take in multiple data points

00:23:22

at the same time listen to millions

00:23:24

and millions of prayers at the same time

00:23:26

and respond the way He wants at the same time.

00:23:30

He hears your prayer. He wants to respond.

00:23:33

He's going to say yes to the things that are right.

00:23:37

I used to tell people

00:23:40

you shouldn't be praying for your financial success.

00:23:43

I don't know why, that was stupid for me to say that.

00:23:45

You shouldn't be praying only for your financial success.

00:23:47

But of course, if you want to be

00:23:49

in a different place financially,

00:23:51

you darn well better be praying about that

00:23:53

and working about it.

00:23:55

God might direct you to a better job

00:23:56

or a different account or something.

00:23:58

It's not that He's going to make you

00:23:59

hit the lottery necessarily,

00:24:02

but He wants to hear from you.

00:24:05

He's hearing from me these days.

00:24:07

God, I want a stronger Crossroads.

00:24:10

God, I want a more intimate relationship with my wife.

00:24:14

God, I want to have more physical capacity.

00:24:17

God, I want to sell more books.

00:24:20

God, I want to have more opportunities

00:24:22

to proclaim who You are.

00:24:24

God, I want to have --

00:24:25

I want to be able to kill an elk this year.

00:24:28

Go elk hunting and actually get one this year.

00:24:30

He's going to be hearing those things for me

00:24:32

and he wants to hear from you.

00:24:34

It's what those of us who are on the path,

00:24:36

the ancient path that leads to life,

00:24:38

we take prayer seriously.

00:24:41

You don't have to be on your knees for an hour every day.

00:24:45

I would encourage you not to have that goal

00:24:46

unless you've been doing that.

00:24:48

You need to start some place though.

00:24:50

Start by having a five minute conversation with God.

00:24:54

Start by maybe writing and having a journal

00:24:56

and writing your prayer.

00:24:57

Do something to talk to God.

00:25:01

The third thing that we don't want to do,

00:25:04

but you have to do on the ancient path

00:25:06

towards spiritual life is community.

00:25:11

You've got to be around the right people

00:25:13

and it has to be predictable.

00:25:17

Tony Hsieh, who we talked about earlier,

00:25:18

the founder of Zappos, apparently

00:25:21

in his final era of his life, he had paid friends.

00:25:26

He would get people who he wanted to party with

00:25:29

and he would ask them what their highest salary

00:25:32

to date was in their life,

00:25:33

and then he would double that salary

00:25:36

just to have them around him all the time

00:25:38

to party with him.

00:25:41

One of his true friends worked with his family members

00:25:44

to have an intervention, it was a failed intervention.

00:25:46

And this true friend said:

00:25:56

Do you have people around you who are going

00:25:58

to say a word when you're going the wrong direction?

00:26:00

Do you have people around you

00:26:01

who are going to say the right word

00:26:02

when you're going the right direction?

00:26:04

Who's encouraging you?

00:26:05

Who are you one another-ing with?

00:26:08

There are 59 one another versus

00:26:10

in the New Testament portion of the Bible

00:26:12

that relate to community.

00:26:14

Let me give you a few.

00:26:15

Be devoted to one another in brotherly love.

00:26:19

Instruct one another.

00:26:21

Carry each other's burdens.

00:26:26

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

00:26:30

Forgive whatever grievances you may have

00:26:33

against one another.

00:26:35

Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.

00:26:41

Grumbling. We've got a nation of grumblers.

00:26:44

I don't know who you're with right now watching this,

00:26:46

but let's all do something.

00:26:48

Let's all say grumble five times. Okay?

00:26:51

Here we go. Grumble, grumble, grumble, grumble, grumble.

00:26:55

Do it again five times.

00:26:56

Grumble, grumble, grumble.

00:26:57

You hear how that sounds like (sound effect)?

00:27:01

That's us, where like --

00:27:02

We're a nation of grumblers because

00:27:04

we're on the superhighway where everyone thinks

00:27:06

it's their divine right to grumble.

00:27:07

(grumbling)

00:27:09

"Oh, well, I don't like

00:27:10

what the government is doing for the pandemic."

00:27:11

(grumbling) "Oh, the economy and my boss.

00:27:15

What is -- they don't know --" (grumbling)

00:27:18

"Oh, my kids, my wife. (grumbling)

00:27:22

Joe Biden. (grumbling)

00:27:25

We're just grumbling, grumbling, grumbling,

00:27:28

instead of one another-ing one another.

00:27:31

Your life will be determined

00:27:34

by the people who are closest to you

00:27:36

and the kind of quality and quantity of time

00:27:40

that you spend with them.

00:27:41

It is a key spiritual discipline,

00:27:44

having the right friends,

00:27:45

having the right community and being with them.

00:27:49

In the Book of Hebrews 10:24-25,

00:27:52

I'm reminded that these issues that we have

00:27:55

aren't modern day American issues,

00:27:57

they've been issues with people, because

00:27:59

people have always wanted to be

00:28:01

on the wide, easy path where all the masses are going.

00:28:04

And the Bible has to constantly say,

00:28:06

"No, come over here,

00:28:07

come over here to this ancient path,

00:28:09

come over here to this path

00:28:11

where not a lot of people are,

00:28:12

but that actually leads to life."

00:28:14

And this verse was written

00:28:16

to people in the first century,

00:28:17

people who didn't have Internet.

00:28:35

This verse is an exact application

00:28:39

of why you should make it a habit

00:28:41

to attend church every week.

00:28:44

It is amazing the things that we do,

00:28:47

the things that we're committed to,

00:28:48

churches is the one thing for those who follow Christ

00:28:52

and say, "I want to be more like God,"

00:28:54

that we instantaneously just drop.

00:28:56

Like there's nothing else that we go,

00:28:58

"Oh, I can't do that today."

00:28:59

We have a job, we don't go, "Oh,

00:29:01

I don't feel like going to my job today."

00:29:04

If we have a date like, "Oh, nah,

00:29:05

I'm just not in the mood to go on my date today."

00:29:07

When it comes to church,

00:29:08

if we have any other option, anything else,

00:29:10

"Oh, I just can't -- I just can't do it.

00:29:12

I'll get it later."

00:29:14

We've given up the habit of meeting with one another.

00:29:18

Church is a place of worship

00:29:21

where you meet with one another

00:29:23

and you get the Bible, where people are praying.

00:29:28

It's a place where you're sitting beside one another

00:29:32

and singing with one another.

00:29:35

Friends, come on, come on, come on.

00:29:38

I want something different for you in 2021.

00:29:41

I want you to be on a different path in 2021,

00:29:43

and it means you have to do things that other people

00:29:46

aren't going to be able to understand

00:29:48

who are on the wide road that goes to lifelessness.

00:29:52

You've got to get to a new place

00:29:54

and you've got to get on the ancient path.

00:29:56

We need to do that this year.

00:30:01

- There are actually two ways that you can begin

00:30:03

to walk down the ancient path of Bible, prayer,

00:30:06

and community right now.

00:30:07

The first one is through worship.

00:30:10

Worship is the intersection of all those things.

00:30:12

It's biblical truth, sung together as a prayer to God.

00:30:17

We're going to do that in just a few moments.

00:30:19

But there's another way too, and that's through giving.

00:30:21

It's another way to walk down that ancient path.

00:30:23

It's truth about what God does

00:30:26

when we allow Him to lead us financially.

00:30:29

We give our money together

00:30:31

and it's a prayerful worship act to God.

00:30:35

- Yeah. If you want to join me and Kyle,

00:30:37

we do that, that act of worship.

00:30:39

If you want to join us in that,

00:30:40

you can go to Crossroads.net/give.

00:30:43

And there you'll be able to find out

00:30:44

answers to questions that you may have,

00:30:46

maybe you want to know where is this money going?

00:30:48

How does it help? What does it do?

00:30:50

What does God say about generosity?

00:30:52

- Those are great questions.

00:30:53

- Yes, and you'll find all of that at Crossroads.net.

00:30:55

Right now, we're going to sing together.

00:30:57

We're going to have some prayers that's just

00:30:59

set to music to ask God to be first in our life.

00:31:02

Join us in that right now.

00:35:02

- You know, last year for many of us

00:35:03

didn't feel like a good year.

00:35:06

We didn't feel good, good things didn't happen.

00:35:08

And if you were anything like me,

00:35:09

maybe you felt a little stuck, in a rut actually.

00:35:13

And sometimes you can go from rut to rut.

00:35:15

You can pull yourself out just to get stuck again.

00:35:19

And we go into ruts because we go down

00:35:21

the same path expecting a different result.

00:35:24

But, you know, if you want something different,

00:35:26

you're going to have to do something different.

00:35:28

And that's why I'm excited to share with you

00:35:31

something that I promise is going to help you

00:35:33

do something different.

00:35:35

And that's a January kick start.

00:35:37

It is a six week time that I want you,

00:35:39

and I invite you,

00:35:40

to watch the service six weeks in a row.

00:35:43

And at the end of it, I promise you

00:35:45

that you will see yourself in a new place with God,

00:35:48

a place that has more inspiration,

00:35:50

more encouragement and, yes, more truth.

00:35:54

If that sounds interesting to you,

00:35:55

I want you to go to Crossroads.net/goals2021

00:35:59

or you can text GOALS2021 to 313131.

00:36:05

- Here's the thing, wouldn't it be great

00:36:07

if you could get to a new place

00:36:08

by doing one thing one time?

00:36:10

Wouldn't that be amazing if

00:36:11

one workout that leads to a better body,

00:36:13

one conversation with your spouse

00:36:15

that produces the great marriage?

00:36:16

But that's not how it works.

00:36:18

It turns out the way you get to a new place

00:36:21

is repetitions of the right thing over time.

00:36:23

And we believe this weekly experience

00:36:26

will help you get there, because every week

00:36:28

we're going to give you a shot of inspiration,

00:36:30

encouragement, and hope to get you through that week,

00:36:33

no matter what life throws at you.

00:36:35

And then the next week, we're going to

00:36:36

give it to you again and again and again.

00:36:39

And you're going to find yourself in a new place.

00:36:41

So, like Hannah said, I really hope

00:36:42

you'll join us in the January kick start.

00:36:45

And I hope you get this picture at Crossroads,

00:36:47

we don't want to be talking heads who say

00:36:50

one thing to you, point the way,

00:36:51

the good stuff's up there, hope you make it.

00:36:54

No, we want to be guides who walk with you

00:36:57

all of the way every day in your life.

00:37:00

So I don't know what needs you might have right now.

00:37:02

But, man, we'd love to help take care of you.

00:37:04

We'd love to help meet them,

00:37:06

no matter what you're experiencing in your life.

00:37:08

In fact, if you want to email me, you can do that.

00:37:10

Kyle.Ranson@Crossroads.net.

00:37:12

I'll try my best to respond to you within 24 hours,

00:37:15

whatever it is.

00:37:16

Or you might be in a spot where you're like,

00:37:18

"Kyle, I can't wait 24 hours.

00:37:19

I don't got that much time."

00:37:20

I totally get it and we've got you covered.

00:37:22

Our team is ready right now to chat with you.

00:37:25

You can go to Crossroads.net, click the chat button

00:37:28

and talk to a real live person who cares for you.

00:37:32

If I can, I'd like to pray for you,

00:37:33

pray for your week that's coming up,

00:37:35

that God would lead you on the ancient path to new life.

00:37:38

Let me pray for you right now.

00:37:39

God, thank You for everyone watching right now,

00:37:43

everyone engaging with us.

00:37:44

I pray that You'd bless them,

00:37:46

that Your peace would cover them,

00:37:47

that Your protection would cover them

00:37:49

no matter what comes up this week.

00:37:51

We don't know God, but we know that You do.

00:37:53

We know that hard things might come up.

00:37:54

We're asking that You'd be able

00:37:56

to walk us through them to new life. Amen.

00:38:01

Thanks for being with us this week.

00:38:02

We'll see you next week.

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