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Well, hey, everybody.
Welcome to Crossroads.
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I'm Alli.
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What? What are you looking at?
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Okay, This is weird.
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I'm -- I'm in a coffin.
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It's creepy in here.
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Did you ever think you
would lay alive in a coffin?
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This is actually the
moment that most of us
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spend our entire
lives being afraid of:
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laying in a coffin.
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Most of us think that
this is the moment
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that happens at
the end of our life.
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But what if I told you that
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this moment has already happened
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because you were born dead.
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That's the shocking truth
we're going to talk about
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in Ephesians 2 today: you
were born spiritually dead.
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This moment, this coffin
has already been a reality
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for you and for me and
everybody else you know,
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and that is really bad news.
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That is really bad news for us
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because dead people
can't help themselves.
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Dead people don't just
stand up out of coffins.
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Dead people don't come
back to life on their own.
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But Ephesians 2
doesn't stop there.
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Ephesians 2 has
these two little words
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right in the middle
of the passage
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and they change everything.
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Ephesians 2, those two
little words are "but God."
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You were born a
beautiful, innocent looking,
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chubby little baby, but
you were dead, but God.
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Woo, it's harder to get
out of than you think.
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Well, listen, God has
done something that has
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changed the course of
human life and death forever.
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And today we're going to
talk about exactly what that is
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so that we can be reminded
we have a choice how to live.
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You can continue through
your life as The Walking Dead
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or you can decide
that today is the day
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that you get to live
your life more deeply,
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more fully alive than
maybe you ever have before.
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Let me pray for us.
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Lord, my prayer for today
is really, really simple.
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I want You to bring
dead people back to life.
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In Jesus's name, Amen.
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Well, the truth that we
jump into in this passage
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we're going to deal with today
is a little bit hard to swallow.
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So first of all, I really
want you to consider
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the fact that we
are living right here,
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humans on Earth in 2023,
and that that has shaped
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our perspective on what
we think of as life and death.
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And I just want you
to consider the idea
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as we begin in this
passage, that maybe
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that's not exactly the same view
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that God has on life and death.
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And if you suspend
that just for a second,
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it'll be a little bit easier
to hop into Ephesians 2
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where we're going to be today.
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But I did want to
show you something
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that will make it
even a little bit easier.
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Look at this cute,
chubby, chubby little baby.
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That's right. This is
Allison Lynn, everyone.
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Allison Lynn in Columbia,
Missouri all those years ago.
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This was me.
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I've had 4 of these beautiful,
perfect little babies myself.
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And I know that the most
offensive thing you can say
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to a new mom is that
somehow their baby
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isn't the picture of perfection.
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We look at little babies
like that and we think
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it's all possibility,
it's all purity,
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it's all beauty, it's all life.
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And in many ways,
physically, that's true, right?
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But spiritually,
the life inside of us,
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the intangible life of
our body, our mind,
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our motives, our
heart, our desires,
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our spirit, that kind of life
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starts in a very
different place.
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It actually starts right here.
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So let's jump into
Ephesians 2 and see a little bit
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more about God's
perspective on life and death
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that Paul, the writer of
Ephesians is talking about.
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Ephesians 2:1, it says:
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And you were dead in
the trespasses and sins,
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in which you once walked
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following the
course of this world,
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following the prince
of the power of the air,
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the spirit that is now at work
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in the sons of disobedience,
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among whom we all once lived
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in the passions of our flesh,
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carrying out the desires
of the body and mind,
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and we're by nature,
children of wrath,
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like the rest of mankind.
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Whoa. That is quite a passage.
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And it begins with those
words: You were dead.
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Let's look at those:
You were dead.
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Now, this truth is not
exactly what we think of
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when we think of the
beginning of our life.
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And as a matter of
fact, we've constructed
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some narratives in
our culture that help us
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to kind of avoid the
blunt kind of harsh reality
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of this in our world.
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We say things like, you
need a spiritual awakening
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or you just need a fan
that spark of divine life
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into a flame,
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or you need to connect
with your inner goddess
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and find your voice or whatever.
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We have all these
spiritual sayings
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that are kind of
getting at this idea,
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but they stop one step
short of actually saying
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what the Bible says about
it, which is you were dead.
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The spiritual reality
that we're born into
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is actually that.
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It doesn't leave much
room for anything else.
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And the reason that
I want so much for us
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to begin in this place,
even as uncomfortable
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and kind of harsh
as it is, is because
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if we don't get the
starting point right,
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then we're going to be
looking for the wrong solution
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to the wrong problem.
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And Paul is going
to address that.
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We need this reminder.
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If we were written
a letter like this,
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if we are written a letter,
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so this one's called Ephesians
because it was written
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to a community in
the city of Ephesus.
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So if they wrote one to
me where I was standing,
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like, in my community,
it would be Cincinnatians
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or maybe to our entire
church you could write
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something like
Midwesterners, right?
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We need this reminder too.
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If we had a letter,
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it would definitely
have this reminder in it.
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And the reason is because
you are just so nice.
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You are so nice.
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Here in the Midwest, especially,
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like we talked to people
at the grocery store.
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We're raised with this
mindset of trying to be
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a good person
and live a good life.
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If we encountered,
though, this paragraph,
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certainly Paul would have
also used some emojis.
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Maybe these four
would have shown up
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somewhere in this paragraph,
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this reminder of
where we all began.
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I like the cat. I'm a cat
person; don't hate on it.
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I know you all love your dogs,
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but you're just so decent.
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You're just so decent.
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And my experience tells me that
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the better a person you
are, the harder a worker,
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the more you try
to live life decently,
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the more prone you are to forget
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that this is actually
the beginning,
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that this is the reality
of our spiritual existence,
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no matter what the
outside of our life looks like.
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And so if we don't kind of
get our heads straight on that,
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then we end up like this woman
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who was in one of my
Bible studies years ago.
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We were talking
about this truth.
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I can't remember if it
was from this passage
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or a different one that
points out the same
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somewhere else in the Bible.
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But she said -- she
kind of raised her voice.
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You know, she
got like, [sound FX],
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like, got kind of
worked up about it.
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And she said,
"Are you telling me
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that my whole life
I've been trying to be
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a good person and
God doesn't care?
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That I've been working
as hard as I've worked
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and being as good
as I've tried to be,
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and that that's not
important to God.
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Is that what you're telling me?"
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And I said, "Hey,
no deep breath.
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God very much
cares how you live.
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And also, you can't solve
one problem with that solution.
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You have a different problem
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that requires a
different solution.
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And this requires
something that goes
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way, way, way beyond
whatever we've got inside of us.
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We don't have the
spark of life inside of us
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to solve this problem.
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That's why Paul
begins this passage
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with the words you were dead.
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Now, a handful of weeks ago,
you all were probably like me
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and you were watching
the game, the Bengals game
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where Damar Hamlin
collapsed on the field.
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We now know in that
moment, his heart stopped.
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It absolutely stopped. No life.
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Now can you imagine how
bizarre it would have been
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if instead of the amazing
EMTs that rushed on the field
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to save his life,
to restart his heart.
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Can you imagine how
bizarre it would have been
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if they ran out on the field
and gathered around him
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and started going,
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"I wonder how many
pushups this guy did yesterday.
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Probably not enough.
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Where did he go
in the draft again?
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What was his spot in the draft?
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Maybe if it had
been a little higher,
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he wouldn't have, you
know, ended up like this.
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Or what about charity?
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Does this guy do charity
work? Probably not."
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Can you imagine how crazy
that would have sounded,
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how bizarre that
would have seemed,
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how very wrong it
would have been.
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They would have
rushed out onto the field
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with an urgent problem of
his heart stopping, no life,
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and would have tried
to solve it by suggesting
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he should have been
a bit better of a person.
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That's crazy talk.
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And we can see that in
the physical realm, right?
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Like, it's no problem.
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You can, you
immediately understand
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that in the physical realm
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that would have not
only been bizarre,
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it would have been
wrong, deeply off.
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But for some reason, we
struggle to see that truth
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in the spiritual realm.
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We struggle with these three
little words: you were dead.
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And so we go looking
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for the wrong answer
to the wrong problem.
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If we don't get the problem,
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we might even be
offended by the answer.
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How crazy would that be?
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And we would
definitely miss the signs
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that we were
living our life dead.
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So what are those signs?
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Let's go back to our
passage for a minute.
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I want you to see
how Paul describes,
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this is some of the the language
that he uses in the passage.
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He describes exactly
what a life feels like,
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looks like, would be like
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if you were living
it continually dead.
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He says this:
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you would be following
the course of the world.
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You would be carrying out
the passions of the flesh,
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the desires of the
body and the mind.
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If I were to encapsulate
what Ephesians 2 says
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a life dead, like,
the Walking Dead,
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what kind of life would that be?
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It would be a life lived
in the world of the world
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where you just meet
the next craving,
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you just address the next need.
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Living dead is a life
consumed by craving.
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Now I know I had one
experience that taught me,
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like, physically, what would
this life kind of look like?
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And it was many years ago
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and I was pregnant
with my first son,
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but I didn't know it yet.
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And I went to this meeting.
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I was still in my
corporate career
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and I went to this
offsite meeting
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and there was, like, a
kind of a big board room
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full of people and they
served us lunch at this meeting.
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And it was sort of old school.
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And everybody got a dish
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of everyone's favorite
cottage cheese.
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I brought some cottage
cheese with me today.
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I got a spoon in here
somewhere. Let me find this.
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Here it is.
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Now I am fairly revolted
by cottage cheese.
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Anybody with me?
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I mean, this is,
like, large curd.
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This is large curd
cottage cheese.
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And it's like I would
never -- I just would never.
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I mean.
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Oh.
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Right.
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So, I'm in the meeting.
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Oh. Eww.
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I should have brought
some water up here.
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So I'm in the meeting
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and I have this little
dish of cottage cheese
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and I'm like, "I don't
know, looks kind of good.
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I think I'm going to eat it."
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Put some salt and pepper on it.
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Take a couple of bites.
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And I was like, "Hmm,
yeah, I'm liking that."
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So I nudged the
friend next to me.
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Her name was Chris, and I said,
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"Hey, can I have
your cottage cheese?"
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And she was like, "Please."
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So she slides me
her cottage cheese
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and I eat her cottage cheese.
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And here's what I start doing.
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"You, give it to me.
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Over there, I need
that cottage cheese.
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You gonna to eat
that? Bring it over."
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By the time the
meeting was over,
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I had eaten like seven
people's cottage cheese.
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And Chris even joked with me.
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She was like, "Are
you pregnant?"
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And I was like, "Ha-ha."
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Actually, I was. I
was having a craving.
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I would have been --
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I would have been
the last person
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I would have thought
prior to that moment
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in that board room that
it was just an excuse
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that pregnant women
made up to eat a lot more,
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until I ate seven dishes
of cottage cheese.
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And here was me, I
was like, you, I need it.
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I'll take that. Slide it over.
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I need yours. Please.
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I'm just meeting the
next thing that I want.
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This is the life
that Paul describes.
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He describes a life
where we just look at
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what we think we
need, our body tells us,
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our mind tells us, the
world tells us, and we go,
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"I need that. I need
that. Pass it over.
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Again. Please. More."
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This is the kind of life
that Paul describes.
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And I've got to tell you,
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it doesn't always look
like cottage cheese.
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It's not always
bad looking. It's not.
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As a matter of fact,
it's almost never evil.
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This life that Paul
describes of death playing out
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in your life through the
passions of your mind,
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your body, the world, it
actually looks pretty good.
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I brought a few things that
seem like my life of death.
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This is what death
really looked like for me.
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At a young age I would never
have had the words for this,
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of course, but I just
craved approval.
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I want you to approve of me.
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And I learned how to get
that through accomplishments.
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So I remember as a kid, I had a
whole dresser full of trophies.
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It might have been cheerleading,
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it might have been gymnastics,
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it might have been swimming,
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it might have been academics,
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it might have been
academics at some point.
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And I had -- I even
remember dusting my dresser
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when I was a kid,
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and I had to lift up
the rows of trophies.
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And this is how I learned
how to meet that need.
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I wanted to know I'm
okay. I've done good.
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I'm worth something.
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You can love me now
because I did this, right?
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Who wouldn't love somebody
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with a whole dresser
full of trophies?
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And this was my life
of death going, "Again.
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I need that again.
I need that again."
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I learned somewhat later
how to meet that need.
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If you're -- you know what?
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If you're younger
than me in here,
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you may have not ever
gotten a paper report card.
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I like look my kids up
on the computer now.
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Sometimes on that
day when they come out,
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I actually forget.
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I don't have the awkward moment
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where they pull it out of
their backpack anymore.
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That's, like, something
we all need to do.
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Anyway. Grade cards, A minus.
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Be ashamed of that.
Not good enough.
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Sometimes when people
would see this stuff in my life,
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they would say, "Oh, you
must be very competitive."
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And I would think that
never really computed for me.
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I didn't feel competitive
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because that's not
what I was doing.
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What I was doing is I need
to know I'm worth something.
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I need you to approve of me.
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I need you to love me.
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And so I'll just perform for you
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00:17:11
in a way where I
can meet that need.
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00:17:13
I can be sure.
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00:17:14
This was my life of death.
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00:17:16
And do you think that
looked bad to people?
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00:17:19
Not at all.
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00:17:21
Not at all.
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00:17:22
Now, that might not be yours.
-
00:17:24
I talked to a friend,
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00:17:25
and I recognized the
same thing in her story
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00:17:27
when she described,
this was crazy to me.
-
00:17:30
But everyone else's
always seem crazy.
-
00:17:34
She put white rugs
in her laundry room,
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00:17:38
like, where you would
come in from the outside.
-
00:17:41
I have four kids
and a laundry room
-
00:17:43
where you come
in from the outside.
-
00:17:45
I can't imagine putting white
rugs in my laundry room.
-
00:17:49
Her laundry room had white rugs
-
00:17:51
and she worked her
fingers to the bone
-
00:17:53
trying to make sure
that they stayed white.
-
00:17:56
And at some point, she
realized, "Oh, my gosh,
-
00:17:59
this is like a
grade card for me.
-
00:18:01
Am I doing a good job?"
-
00:18:03
She had left work.
She had stayed home.
-
00:18:05
She couldn't tell anymore.
-
00:18:07
Was she doing -- was
she doing a good job?
-
00:18:09
So she made
herself a report card
-
00:18:12
and it just looked
like a white rug.
-
00:18:15
And at some point she realized,
-
00:18:17
"Oh my gosh, what am I doing?"
-
00:18:21
And so maybe yours
are nothing like that.
-
00:18:23
Maybe instead you've
worked on every vacation
-
00:18:27
you've ever been on.
-
00:18:28
Maybe you can't
remember the last time
-
00:18:30
you were attached to a boyfriend
-
00:18:32
or you were not attached
to a boyfriend or girlfriend.
-
00:18:35
Maybe you're obsessing
over how many followers
-
00:18:39
or comments or likes
you have on social media.
-
00:18:42
Whatever it is,
whatever that thing is
-
00:18:44
that you have to come get
over and over and over again.
-
00:18:50
That is your life of
death playing out.
-
00:18:56
That is the reality
of who we really are
-
00:18:59
spiritually speaking
from the very beginning.
-
00:19:02
And death will
literally run your life.
-
00:19:06
And it's very hard to stop.
-
00:19:08
It's very sneaky.
-
00:19:09
It comes back in all kinds
of crazy different ways,
-
00:19:12
even after you've seen it,
even after you're free of it.
-
00:19:16
It'll try to sneak back
in some other way.
-
00:19:18
This happened to
me this last summer.
-
00:19:20
Some of you might
know that I have a book
-
00:19:22
that recently came out,
and you actually write that
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00:19:25
a really long time ago.
-
00:19:26
Oh, thank you. That's so sweet.
-
00:19:28
You write that a
really long time ago,
-
00:19:30
which I loved writing it.
-
00:19:31
And then you go into this phase
-
00:19:33
right before it comes
out where you have to
-
00:19:35
work with some people
on how to market that book.
-
00:19:41
I found myself, like, trying
to find the formula again.
-
00:19:46
How can I make A plus
B plus C, equal an A?
-
00:19:49
How can I do that? Where is it?
-
00:19:52
How can I meet that need?
-
00:19:54
You all, it's a book
about Jesus. Right?
-
00:19:57
Like, death does not
give up it's all very easily.
-
00:20:01
It's going to try to come back
over and over and over again.
-
00:20:05
And it took me a hot
minute, but I saw it
-
00:20:07
and I was like, "Oh,
I know what this is.
-
00:20:09
This is the old
way, the old life."
-
00:20:13
That's exactly what Paul is
writing about to the Ephesians.
-
00:20:16
He wants them to know
you had a life before Jesus.
-
00:20:20
Remember what it felt like?
-
00:20:23
It was just meeting
the next need,
-
00:20:25
meeting the next desire,
quieting the craving.
-
00:20:28
It was a life where
death ran the show.
-
00:20:33
Totally ran the show.
-
00:20:36
I hope by now you're
yearning to know,
-
00:20:39
you're yearning to hear
what those two little words
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00:20:42
that I said from the coffin
are and where they lead us.
-
00:20:45
Because there's two little words
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00:20:47
right in the middle
of this passage,
-
00:20:49
and they come next
and it is "but God."
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00:20:53
You were this, and this
is how you lived, but God.
-
00:21:01
And God did something that
we're now going to read about.
-
00:21:03
We go right into
it in Ephesians 4,
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00:21:08
excuse 2, verse 4. But God.
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00:21:13
But God, being rich in mercy,
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00:21:16
because of the great love
with which He loved us,
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00:21:19
even when we were, what?
Dead in our trespasses,
-
00:21:25
He made us alive
together with Christ,
-
00:21:32
by grace you have been saved,
-
00:21:35
and raised up with Him
and seated us with Him
-
00:21:38
in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus,
-
00:21:40
so that in the coming
ages He might show
-
00:21:43
the immeasurable
riches of His grace
-
00:21:45
in kindness toward
us in Christ Jesus.
-
00:21:48
Friends, Oh, my gosh.
What did God do?
-
00:21:52
This is the -- this is the truth
-
00:21:55
that when you start
in the right place,
-
00:21:56
even though it feels so
very weird and so very wrong,
-
00:22:00
this is the solution
to that problem.
-
00:22:05
But God made us alive.
-
00:22:08
Now, Paul can be kind
of a wordy writer, right?
-
00:22:10
If I was like an
English teacher,
-
00:22:11
I could diagram the
sentence for you,
-
00:22:13
and we would see the
very simple structure
-
00:22:16
of this whole
paragraph that says:
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00:22:18
And you were dead,
but God made you alive.
-
00:22:22
This is the core of the gospel.
-
00:22:25
This is the gospel itself.
-
00:22:27
If you've ever been
one of those people
-
00:22:29
that sits in church
and goes, like,
-
00:22:31
"I've heard people
talk about this gospel.
-
00:22:34
What's the gospel again?"
-
00:22:36
The gospel is you were dead, but
God made you alive in Christ.
-
00:22:41
God made you alive in Christ.
-
00:22:42
And this is the
unbelievable reality, because
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00:22:46
this is where our
spiritual life begins.
-
00:22:51
And then God did something.
-
00:22:53
He sent His Son to this
earth to live a perfect life,
-
00:22:56
not one driven by
cravings and selfish motives
-
00:22:59
and desires that come
back over and over.
-
00:23:02
Jesus came and
lived a perfect life,
-
00:23:04
and then He went
into a grave anyway.
-
00:23:08
And He did that for you, so
that as He was raised back up
-
00:23:12
into an eternal life that
overcomes any death,
-
00:23:16
He could share that with you.
-
00:23:19
That's what He wants to do,
He wants to share it with you.
-
00:23:22
This is unbelievably good news.
-
00:23:24
If this is true, then that
means it changes everything.
-
00:23:28
It changes absolutely
everything about
-
00:23:31
how our life can be lived
right here, right now, today.
-
00:23:35
God made us alive.
-
00:23:36
And how did He do it?
-
00:23:38
Together with
Christ, by his grace.
-
00:23:42
Did it say if?
-
00:23:44
If you live a good
life, if you work hard,
-
00:23:47
if you smile at people
in the grocery store,
-
00:23:50
if you chew with
your mouth closed,
-
00:23:51
if you earn a lot of A's.
-
00:23:53
No, it doesn't say any of that.
-
00:23:55
It says you were dead,
and even in your death
-
00:23:59
and everything that means,
God came to make you alive.
-
00:24:03
That is unreal. It's unreal.
-
00:24:07
And I just have to show
you this one more time.
-
00:24:09
Look at this.
-
00:24:10
He didn't just make you alive.
-
00:24:12
He raised you up with Him
-
00:24:15
and He has seated you with Him
-
00:24:17
in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus.
-
00:24:20
Friends, you're not just alive.
-
00:24:23
Your life is alive in
a whole new realm,
-
00:24:26
a whole new realm.
-
00:24:27
You may have
begun your life here
-
00:24:30
and you will never go back
-
00:24:32
because you are
already somewhere else.
-
00:24:34
You are already alive
within an eternal reality
-
00:24:38
that is yours in
Christ the moment
-
00:24:42
that you confess
your faith in Christ
-
00:24:44
that you understand
He did that for me.
-
00:24:47
He shares His life with me.
-
00:24:50
That is mind blowingly good.
-
00:24:55
And this is what God did.
-
00:24:57
I said today I wanted you to
be reminded of what He did
-
00:25:00
and how that
changes your reality,
-
00:25:02
because you really are
alive in a whole new realm.
-
00:25:04
And if you are, then that means
-
00:25:07
your life works
completely differently now.
-
00:25:10
It doesn't need to be a series
of cravings that you meet,
-
00:25:13
instead, if I were to
encapsulate a life in Christ
-
00:25:17
that starts here and
now and never ends,
-
00:25:20
it would be I'm free to follow.
-
00:25:23
I'm free, and I'm free
to follow wherever it is
-
00:25:27
that God is going to lead me.
-
00:25:29
Because God runs the show,
-
00:25:32
because God's
plans dictate my life,
-
00:25:34
because God's
priorities win the day,
-
00:25:37
because God is ruling over
my life, not any other power.
-
00:25:44
The power of the Holy Spirit,
-
00:25:46
who actually
comes to live in you,
-
00:25:49
sustaining that life,
comes to live in you
-
00:25:52
when you come to a
genuine faith in Christ.
-
00:25:55
And then He begins
to rule over your life,
-
00:25:58
attacking any
aspect of your life
-
00:26:01
that is still being lived
under the rule of death.
-
00:26:04
Isn't that amazing?
-
00:26:05
And you begin to live
increasingly, increasingly free
-
00:26:09
to follow God
wherever He is leading.
-
00:26:12
I want you to see
a picture of this
-
00:26:14
in the life of Christ.
-
00:26:16
In John Chapter 10, Jesus
describes His own life.
-
00:26:19
And I want you to listen
to how He describes it.
-
00:26:21
It's incredible. John 10 says:
-
00:26:37
Friends, Jesus at will,
at the will and plans
-
00:26:42
and promises of His
Father, He could lay down
-
00:26:44
any part of his life,
any day that he lived,
-
00:26:47
or He could pick
it back up again.
-
00:26:50
He wasn't driven by selfish
motives or cravings that he had
-
00:26:54
or whims of the day
or anything like that.
-
00:26:56
He was always under
the authority of God
-
00:27:01
to put it down and
to pick it back up.
-
00:27:04
This is the picture of freedom
that we get in the Scriptures.
-
00:27:09
Now, it might lead you to
some unexpected places,
-
00:27:14
fair warning.
-
00:27:15
A life where you're
free to follow God
-
00:27:17
means you're
following Him. Right?
-
00:27:21
You're not continually
meeting your own desires,
-
00:27:23
you're following Him.
-
00:27:24
He might lead you to
a really good counselor
-
00:27:26
to deal with some things.
-
00:27:28
He might lead you to
give some things up,
-
00:27:32
to lay some things down,
and He might lead you
-
00:27:34
to take up new paths
that you never once
-
00:27:37
would have ever thought
you would have been on.
-
00:27:39
The thing is, you're
free to follow Him there.
-
00:27:43
You can lay anything down
and you can pick anything up
-
00:27:46
that needs to be laid
down and picked up
-
00:27:48
in order to follow Him.
-
00:27:50
Do you want a simple test to see
-
00:27:52
whether you're
living dead or alive?
-
00:27:55
It's super simple.
-
00:27:56
One question. Can
you stop? Can you stop?
-
00:28:05
Can you stop the work?
-
00:28:09
Can you stop the alcohol?
-
00:28:10
Can you stop the relationship?
-
00:28:13
Can you stop whatever it is
that's been running your life?
-
00:28:16
Can you stop the volunteering?
-
00:28:18
Oh, my gosh.
-
00:28:20
If I was driven by volunteering,
I would never sleep.
-
00:28:22
I have four kids at
three different schools.
-
00:28:24
Step away from
the Signup Genius.
-
00:28:28
You don't need a
sign up for that. Stop.
-
00:28:32
You can be driven by things
that look incredibly good,
-
00:28:36
incredibly helpful.
-
00:28:37
And God wants you driven
only by one thing: Him.
-
00:28:40
Can you stop?
-
00:28:45
And if you can't, you know that,
-
00:28:47
that at least that
aspect of your life
-
00:28:50
is still being ruled by death.
-
00:28:52
It's still being run by death.
-
00:28:54
And there's more life for you.
-
00:28:55
We're going to
finish this passage,
-
00:28:57
these last couple of verses.
-
00:28:58
They give us a peek,
a little peek at the life
-
00:29:00
that Paul means when
he writes this passage.
-
00:29:03
So remember, you were
dead, but God made you alive.
-
00:29:07
And this is how he
finishes in Ephesians 2:8:
-
00:29:11
For by grace, You've
been saved through faith.
-
00:29:13
And this is not your own
undoing; it is the gift of God,
-
00:29:16
not a result of works,
so that no one can boast.
-
00:29:20
For we are His workmanship,
-
00:29:21
created in Christ
Jesus for good works,
-
00:29:24
which God prepared beforehand,
-
00:29:26
that we should walk in them.
-
00:29:29
God wants you free enough to
follow Him wherever He leads.
-
00:29:33
It's a gift.
-
00:29:36
That you can take right
here, right now, today.
-
00:29:38
And also this life
that's waiting for you,
-
00:29:41
it feels like you.
-
00:29:43
You know, when you're just
meeting needs and desires
-
00:29:45
and cravings all over the place,
-
00:29:47
I know that you
don't feel like yourself.
-
00:29:50
I certainly don't.
-
00:29:51
I feel a quality about
that day or work
-
00:29:54
or aspect of my life
that's, like, off a little bit.
-
00:29:56
This life God has for
you, it feels like you.
-
00:29:59
You've been created
for something.
-
00:30:02
And not to do work like a slave
over and over and over again.
-
00:30:06
We sang that song
earlier No Longer Slaves.
-
00:30:10
This is exactly
what it talks about,
-
00:30:13
that the perfect love of
God comes in and frees you
-
00:30:18
so that you don't
have to live like that.
-
00:30:21
But there is things
for you to do.
-
00:30:23
There are good works
that God has created you
-
00:30:26
uniquely to go and
fulfill in this world.
-
00:30:30
This is a life of freedom,
freedom to follow,
-
00:30:34
permission to leave behind
-
00:30:36
whatever's been
running your life.
-
00:30:41
And we just have to
ask one final question
-
00:30:43
about this passage,
because it's kind of
-
00:30:45
overriding the entire thing.
-
00:30:47
You've got to wonder
if this life is so good,
-
00:30:51
why does Paul have to
remind a bunch of believers
-
00:30:55
that they can live like this?
-
00:30:58
Because that's what's
really going on here.
-
00:31:00
Paul is saying, "Hey,
believers in the church
-
00:31:04
in the city of Ephesus,
you were dead,
-
00:31:07
and God made you alive."
-
00:31:11
He's talking past tense.
-
00:31:12
He's talking something that
already happened to them.
-
00:31:14
Why should he have to
do that if this life is so good?
-
00:31:21
What he wants from them
is to choose it again today.
-
00:31:25
He wants them to
remember, to contrast.
-
00:31:28
Do I want to live like this
or do I want to live like this?
-
00:31:30
Because you can continue
to be The Walking Dead.
-
00:31:36
You can continue to put yourself
-
00:31:38
under the rule of a
spirit that isn't God
-
00:31:41
of a life run by death even when
you've been freed in Christ,
-
00:31:46
because you have a choice.
-
00:31:47
And Paul is saying, "I
want you to choose it again
-
00:31:51
and again and again.
-
00:31:53
And I want you to
remember what it feels like
-
00:31:55
and what it looks like to
not live in that freedom.
-
00:31:58
And now I want you
to choose it again."
-
00:31:59
And I think there's
people in here today
-
00:32:02
that want to choose life again.
-
00:32:04
One group in here
has never done it.
-
00:32:09
You just didn't know.
-
00:32:10
At some point someone
has to say to you,
-
00:32:12
"Hey, did you know
you were born dead
-
00:32:14
and there's a way to life?"
-
00:32:16
Somebody needs to say
that, and that's one group.
-
00:32:20
Others of us in here, we
know full well the power,
-
00:32:25
the ruler, the craving,
the desire of our flesh
-
00:32:28
that's been running the
show and we're submitting to it
-
00:32:32
and we're choosing that over and
over and over and over again.
-
00:32:36
And I want you to consider
-
00:32:37
what if you made a
different choice today?
-
00:32:40
What if you believed you
might have the authority
-
00:32:43
to lay it down and the
power to pick it back up
-
00:32:45
if God ever wanted you
to, but you are free today?
-
00:32:50
And the last group
is maybe like me
-
00:32:54
this past summer when
you're, like, you're doing it,
-
00:32:57
you're trying to live free
and all of a sudden, crap.
-
00:33:01
There I am acting
like my old self again.
-
00:33:04
And it just takes
you a minute to see it.
-
00:33:06
And right now it's
coming into focus
-
00:33:07
and it's time to say
yes to the freedom
-
00:33:11
and to the life that
God offers to you.
-
00:33:14
Right now, you can
turn away from death
-
00:33:17
and you can walk
straight into life.
-
00:33:19
I'm going to pray for us.
-
00:33:22
Lord, for those of us who
have never taken you up
-
00:33:25
on your offer of life, I
asked that Your Spirit
-
00:33:28
would just be all over
those people today,
-
00:33:31
pulling them, magnetically
drawing them into a life in You.
-
00:33:36
I pray for ultimate
final freedom in Christ.
-
00:33:41
And for those of us who
have already said yes
-
00:33:44
to that freedom and who
are living under the rule
-
00:33:48
of something that is not You
-
00:33:50
that is dragging us
toward death, I pray that
-
00:33:53
Your life in us would
overwhelm that death, Lord.
-
00:33:58
Bring your Holy
Spirit into those places
-
00:34:01
and overwhelm that
death with Your life.
-
00:34:04
Thank You for Your Grace.
-
00:34:06
Thank you for Jesus who
shares His life with us. Amen.