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Well, welcome to church.
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We're so glad to have you joining us on Crossroads Anywhere.
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My name's Lena Schuler.
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I'm the Crossroads Anywhere Community Pastor.
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And right now, we're in a series called The Blessed Life.
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And I'm excited to get to go through that with you today.
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But I want you to be prepared for something that's coming in a few minutes.
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We're actually going to take communion together today.
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And so if you are a follower of Jesus, you're in a relationship with Him,
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that part of our service is for you.
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And so maybe you've got a bagel and coffee like I have here with me right now
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or a muffin and juice or some kind of food
and drink at home or wherever you might be.
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You'll want to get that ready for when we take communion in a few minutes.
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And before we do that, we're going to spend some time worshipping together.
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So I would encourage you as weird as it might feel,
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let these words sink in and actually sing with us.
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God, I thank you.
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I thank you, God, that you call us your sons and daughters.
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And by that definition, we are free.
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We are free. We are not slaves, we are bound.
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So, God, I just pray over every person in this room and every person watching,
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God, that we would remember that we would know that,
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and whatever you have for us in this message,
God, that we would feel pierced by your love,
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that we would feel more known by you, sought after, fought for by you,
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worthy because you say we are.
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We love you. We thank you.
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In your name we pray, Amen.
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Thank you so much for singing with us.
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You sound great in here.
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I believe you sound great out there, too.
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It's always fun to worship together.
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Why don't you make this place a little smaller.
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If you're at home, say hi to somebody next to you.
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Greet someone. We're happy that you are here.
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- Well, you know, one of the reasons that I love worship is because
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those songs give us words to remember what God's done for us.
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And that song No Longer Slaves, we just sang.
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It says, You split the sea so I could walk right through it.
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You drown my fears in perfect love.
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You rescued me so I could stand and sing that I am a child of God.
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And there's something powerful in remembering how God's rescued us,
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something powerful in remembering the things that he's done for his kids
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and for his people for years and years and years,
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like splitting the sea for his people to walk right through it, literally.
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And so we're going to do another thing right now
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that is a way for us to remember what God's done,
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what he's done for us and what he's done for the people that came before us
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and are going to come after us, and that's communion.
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And Jesus was together with his friends and his last meal with his friends.
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And he said, I want you to remember who I am
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and I want you to remember who I am on a regular basis ongoing.
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And you can do that anytime you eat or you drink together.
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Remember me.
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And so we're going to do that right now, we're going to remember Jesus.
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And so if you have been rescued by Jesus, you are a child of God,
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you've received that identity, I invite you to take communion right now with us.
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So grab whatever food you might have, whatever drink you might have.
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And I want you to start with the drink.
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I want to tell you that as you take a sip of this coffee or this juice
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or whatever you might have in front of you, the wine,
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this is a symbol of Christ's blood that was shed for you.
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Drink it and remember him.
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And then I want to pick up -- I want you to pick up the food that you have.
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I have a bagel right here with me, so I'm going to eat this bagel.
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As you eat the food in front of you,
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this bread, the cracker that you have, the pizza that you're eating.
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I want you to eat that and remember that this is Christ's body broken for you.
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He died so that you might have life.
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He's rescued you.
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It's an honor that we get to remember Jesus
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in the way that his friends remembered him 2000 years ago.
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And maybe you just took your first communion, if that's true, man,
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I am excited that we got to celebrate that together.
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That's worth celebrating.
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And there are other moments that are worth celebrating together.
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Another one that's coming up next week is baptism.
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Baptism is the way for us to publicly declare that we've been rescued by Jesus.
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For us to publicly declare that we have a relationship with him
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and that we want a life with him forever.
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And so if you have not publicly declared that,
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but you believe that in your heart,
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maybe you just took communion
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or you've been taking communion for years and years
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because you believe that to be true about Jesus
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and you're altering your life around that.
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And if you've not been baptized, now is the time to do it.
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In the Bible over and over again there are examples of people
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who have the opportunity, get baptized and they go,
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"Well, why not now? There's an opportunity right now."
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And the leaders, the followers of Jesus who are there
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and who have been baptized go, "Exactly.
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Why not now?
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Now is the time."
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I would say that to you, too, if you're
at home and you're going to have the baptized.
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Why? Why wouldn't I do it now?
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Exactly. Now is the time.
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So chat with us on the Crossroads Web site.
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Click on that chat box and we would love to help you get signed up
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and get started to be baptized anywhere you might be.
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You know, one of the other ways that we tell God that we trust him
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and we declare our faith in him is through our finances.
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So if you want to be a giver, you can head to Crossroads.net/give.
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And, you know, I am so excited for what else God has in store in
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the midst of this Blessed Life series.
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- Hey, I'm Brian, welcome to week three of The Blessed Life.
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Man, we've been getting a lot out of this series.
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We're not in a campaign.
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There's no campaign we see coming in the future.
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We're never filling out cards and dropping them in a plate
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or bring them forward.
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We're simply trying to look at what does it mean to be blessed
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and how does generosity play a role in that.
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We started the tithe test last week and, man,
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a lot of people decided take us up on this test
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of looking at 90 days to see if we tithe, does God bless us?
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Do we sense God's presence?
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And if not, if not after 90 days, if you want it back,
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that money will come back to you.
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Yeah. Good stuff.
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Chuck is going be talking today.
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And before we have Chuck talk,
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I want to make sure you hear from a guy
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who has really instigated the entire series
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it comes out of a book he wrote called The Blessed Life
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that has impacted me greatly.
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And I decided to fly down to Dallas, Texas, to interact with him.
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He's going to be on my podcast called Aggressive Life.
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You can check that out if you want to in its entirety.
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But we also had the cameras rolling for a little snippet
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to hear what he has to say about being blessed.
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Understand this guy.
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Do not put him in the box of big church pastor, big megachurch pastor.
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This guy is a special insights from God and
what it means to be blessed in giving.
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And he was doing it long before he was a mega pastor.
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This guy's given away cars.
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He's given away his home a number of times.
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He's given away everything he's owned.
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And he still has a lot because God is doing a good thing in him and through him.
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So I thought we'd check him out.
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And please meet my new friend, Robert Morris.
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- What does it mean to be blessed?
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What do you mean when you say, "Blessed.
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I've been blessed. Blessed life"?
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What is that?
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- Well, I think it refers to every area of your life.
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So it's definitely it's not just your finances,
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even though we do talk about finances.
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And Brian, it's really important to talk about finances
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because Jesus said that where your treasure is,
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where your finances are, there your heart will be.
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Now, I many people misquote that, they turn it around.
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They'll say, like, where your heart is, they're your finances will go.
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Like, if your heart is in hunting, then your finances will go there.
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But what happens is it's actually wherever your finances go,
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your heart follows.
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So if you want your heart in people, like in helping people, helping needs.
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You see the pot you pour in other countries
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and you want your heart to go there, you actually put your finances there.
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And what it means is that when God blesses us,
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it means he gives us enough to also bless others.
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To be a blessing.
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It's not about us making more money.
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It's about us being a blessing to those around us.
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- I want to talk about tithing.
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And then another word that you're the first one to clue me in on.
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I've heard and talked tithing, I've been taught that is giving 10 percent.
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The first 10 percent of every pay that you get goes to your local church.
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I've been doing that since someone who was building
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into me spiritually told me about that in college.
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I've done that every church I've gone to,
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including the church I'm part of right now.
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The tithe, though.
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Let's--
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Is it really that big of a deal? I mean, come on.
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You know, 10 percent off the top.
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Well, that just seems so, so legalistic, so ungenerous.
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So, like, I don't -- that doesn't make the most people feel good
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of having a 10 percent tax go to the local church.
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How can you, the generous, do what makes you feel blessed,
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be up for a 10 percent tax?
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- Yeah. Yeah. Well, first of all, I want to say
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I've actually felt the very same way.
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When I started looking at it because I was raised with my dad tithing.
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I get saved and I decide to look and
see what does the Bible really say about it.
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And what I realized was this is a principle that's actually for my good.
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This isn't a tax to pay for the light bill in heaven.
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I mean, God doesn't need -- He doesn't have a light bill in heaven.
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You know, because the Bible says Jesus is the light of heaven.
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So it's not it's not even to support the church.
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This is something for me.
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It's actually for my benefit.
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That that's what blew me away about the tithe.
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It's actually for me to put God first in every area of my life
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because my treasure is where my heart is.
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So it's actually me putting God first in my heart.
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And it's all through the Bible.
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1500 years before the law we've got Cain and Abel.
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Most people know about Cain and Abel.
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And Cain killed Abel.
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Abel gave the first born of his flock.
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He's a rancher.
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Cain who's a farmer.
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It says he gave an offering to God in the process of time, just over time.
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He didn't give first fruits.
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And it says that God accepted Abel's, but he did accept Cain's.
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And I remember in seminary, a professor, a student asked a professor,
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"Why did God accept Abel's offering and didn't accept Cain's?"
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And the professor was very honest, said,
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"You know, I really don't know why God did."
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Well, it's simple when you start reading through there,
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I'm not putting the professor down.
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It's just that God always accepts the first.
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God is first. He's first of all.
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When the children of Israel were going in the promised land,
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He said, "Give me all the silver and gold from Jericho."
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Why would He say all rather in 10 percent?
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It's because Jericho was the first city.
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When he said when your animal has -- your sheep as a lamb,
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give me the first. Why?
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And here's why I think.
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Because it takes faith to give the first one.
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It doesn't take faith to give the tenth one.
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So that's why tithing is the first 10 percent,
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because it doesn't take any faith at all to pay all your bills
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and then give what's left over to God.
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It takes a lot of faith to give the first 10 percent.
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So what's actually happening with tithing
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is not that God needs it or even that the church needs it for support
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because God all through the Bible, he can send ravens to support his people.
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He can send bread from heaven.
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He can call up a fish with a coin in its mouth.
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He has no problem providing.
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He actually wants to do something in my life.
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And that is that from the very -- every time I get paid,
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I'm going to say thank you to God by giving him the first.
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I'm going to say your first in my life.
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- And that is an aggressive move.
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Whatever you do first, that's the aggressive thing.
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So that's what I love about the tithe and what you just said
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is that my wife knows if I'm not in love with her,
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it's because I'm aggressively spending money on my truck.
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I'm aggressively searching the Web for some other hobby I have.
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Aggressively doing it above and beyond her.
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It's the aggression when I tell her this night we're going to do X, Y, Z
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or this, we're gonna spend on what you want.
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And I think that a lot of us are appropriately challenged to ask ourselves,
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"Am I sending God cues that I am aggressively about his business?"
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And that would mean it would be first off the top.
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- Yeah. Yeah. And that's when you were asking me about the little things,
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and I was saying this is what I would do.
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I was kind of including everybody.
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If we're gonna talk about believers, those who'd really believe in God,
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believe that Jesus is the Lord and that we give our lives to him,
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then we base our lives based on the Bible.
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And if we're gonna base our lives based on the Bible,
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I'm just -- I want to say to everyone that
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the tithe was hundreds of years before the law.
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Hundreds of years after the law.
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I had some guy that doesn't like me that said, you know--.
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- You have people that don't like you either?
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- Just one or two.
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- How could someone not like you?
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Look at you, you're everyone's grandfather.
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You never swear or anything.
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- I know. No, well, there's a few times in traffic, but OK, let's leave that.
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Let's let's talk about -- okay.
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Don't put me on the spot.
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OK. So but anyway, so this one guy said, you know,
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the word tithe doesn't even appear in the New Testament.
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I'm thinking, what bible have you read?
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You know.
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So Jesus talks about it.
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Jesus even said you ought to do it.
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You ought to.
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Matthew 23:23. So the point is, if we're talking about now,
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if we are talking to believers and we say,
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well, what are the things?
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And I said, oh, you know, get your finances in order.
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You know, obey the small promptings obey the large promptings.
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But I would say the thing I've seen people the most,
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changed their life the most is when they decide,
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"I am going to give the first 10 percent to God."
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I've had more people write me and tell me that changed everything.
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I have all sorts of testimonies of people getting new jobs,
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promotions, raises.
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And it's not a give and you'll get.
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That is not it. It's that we get to give.
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We don't give to get.
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We get to give.
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But when God's first, it's amazing how God then wants
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to give us more resources because he knows he can trust us
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with what he's giving us.
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- Very few things turn me on and make me feel really warm inside
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more than when a friend of mine or a family memberI.
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Find out has started to tithe,
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to give God the first 10 percent.
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Because when that happens --.
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- That's right.
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- I know God has him.
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Before that, all I know is they have some beliefs
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that line up with some things
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and may they may have been baptized.
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They may have said some prayers.
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But when someone does that, I know and God knows,
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"I got you.
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I got you. And you got me."
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There's just a whole new level to that.
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- It's a completely different level when we say,
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"God, I'm gonna put you first in my finances."
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It's one thing to stand in church and say,
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"I'm going to put you first in my life."
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But when it comes to the wallet,
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it is like there's a fishing line from the wallet to the heart
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because you can see it.
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When people reach for it, it's like I go, oh,
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it's like they get chest pain all of the sudden, you know?
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So you're right, something happens when we start to tithe
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that can't happen any other way
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because we're acknowledging God as our provider
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and we're putting him first in our lives.
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- Well, let me first start with something personal,
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and I'm going to touch on this a bit at the end of our time too.
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Many of you known, if you don't know, wanted to let you know
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that my father, after 91 years of a long and full life,
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passed away last Friday.
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And so it's been an a roller coaster of emotions for me and my family.
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But it's also been an incredible outpouring
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of love and support from my Crossroads family.
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And so I just want to say on behalf not just my family
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here in in Cincinnati, but in Philadelphia and all over,
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we are so thankful for all of that.
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And as I was thinking about my dad and what we're talking about today,
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I realized his life is an example of the key thing that I hope you hear today,
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which is simply this: when God is first in your life,
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everything else comes into order.
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And when God is not first in your life,
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everything else is out of order.
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Now when I say that, I'm not saying when God's first in your life
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you're gonna have a problem-free life.
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I'm not saying that because Jesus didn't say that.
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Jesus himself said in this life you will have trouble.
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But the question that we need to wrestle with is,
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would you rather go through trouble with things in order between you and God
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or with things out of order between you and God?
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And the principle that we're gonna talk about today
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is a principle of order.
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It's called the principle of the first.
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And it shows up all throughout the Bible.
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And so we're gonna just walk through this.
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Got a lot of things to cove, a lot of scriptures.
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I know this, the controversial thing, sometimes
it's difficult to talk about this.
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And so what I want to do today is just illuminate
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scripture after scripture, after scripture,
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where we see this played out so that you can see this is what God says.
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And then you can wrestle with what does it mean for your life.
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But the first point that I would make under this idea
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of the principle of the first is this:
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This is what we see as this principle gets unfolded
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in the Old Testament portion of the Bible
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in places like Exodus 13, starting in verse 1, which says:.
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It is mine. Mine.
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Mine. How many people have kids to do that?
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My kids do. Mine.
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It is mine, God is emphatic here.
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He is emphatically saying, consecrate to me the first born.
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What does it mean to consecrate something?
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It means to sacrifice it.
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That's what it meant in Exodus, sacrifice it, let it go, give it up.
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And God is saying do that because it belongs to me.
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The first born, what does he mean by that?
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The Exodus 13:13 is says:.
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Now, what does that word mean?
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Again, we're using these like, you know, theological words.
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What does that mean? Redeem?
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Redeem simply means to remove the curse
from something or to make something clean.
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And the way that happened in ancient Israel
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was through the sacrificial system that God had set up.
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And so basically you would sacrifice something
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that was considered clean, usually a lamb,
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to redeem something that was considered unclean.
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God was saying give your firstborn lamb,
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which would've been very valuable,
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think about that in an agrarian culture where that was your livelihood.
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He's saying, give the firstborn lamb to me
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and it will redeem everything else.
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Now, if you step back from this,
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some of you are probably ahead of me
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and you're anticipating and making some connections here
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that this principle of sacrificing the first and the clean
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to redeem the unclean has some deeper spiritual implications
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than just our money.
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So let me ask you a question.
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Were you and I when we are born, were we considered according to the Bible,
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spiritually clean or unclean?
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That's right. We're considered unclean.
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Romans 3:23 says: for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
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All of us are born with the stain called the sin nature.
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That impacts every last human being who has
ever been born on the planet, save one.
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If you don't believe me, you can just ask the experts in the room.
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Many of them have white stickers on their pants
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or on their shirts, and they're called parents.
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Parents, did you have to teach your child to be bad?
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Did you have to teach your child to say mine?
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No. Right?
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They come that way. We all come that way.
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So we can all recognize that we are,
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at least from a spiritual perspective, spiritually unclean at birth.
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But let me ask you this question.
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Jesus. Was Jesus born spiritually clean or unclean?
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Jesus was born spiritually clean.
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So the clean has to be sacrificed to redeem the unclean.
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That's exactly what Jesus did for you and for me.
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That's what we just read.
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That's how deep this principle of the first goes
in the heart and in the mind of God.
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It's why John the Baptist, when he saw Jesus coming,
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said this of him and John 1:29:.
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You could say it this way: Jesus is God's tithe.
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Jesus is God's tithe.
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He gave him first.
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In fact the Bible says, he gave him in faith.
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He gave him before we received him.
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ROMANS 5:8 puts it this way:.
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God demonstrates his own love toward us in that while we were still sinners,
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while we were still in rebellion, Christ died for us.
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My Uncle Otis is a preacher
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and I love my Uncle Otis's translation of this verse.
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He says, while we were busy hating God, He was busy loving us.
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God gave Jesus as his tithe and he gave him first,
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so we have to give our first, our first fruit,
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our tithe in much the same way,
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before we experience the blessing of God, we give our first to God.
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God didn't say, "Hey, Israel, have 10 lambs.
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And then that tenth lamb, give me that one.
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Set that one to the side."
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No, he said, give me the first lamb to be born.
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The principle of the first, it's about the first.
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The first belongs to God.
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And when you sacrifice the first, it redeems the rest.
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Let's look at another example of this principle of the first.
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Again, this is all throughout the Bible.
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This example is from a little bit beyond where we just saw in Exodus.
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It's actually at a time when after 400 years of slavery
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and 40 years of wandering in the wilderness,
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the nation of Israel is about to inherit the promised land,
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this land that God had promised to give them
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as an inheritance for them and for the generations of Israelites to follow.
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And so they're right at the precipice.
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They're about the cross a river.
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And the first city that they're going to conquer is the city of Jericho.
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Now, if you went to Sunday school or have heard about the Bible
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and kind of grew up in that,
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that's the city where they marched around it seven times
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and then the seventh time they blew the beat the trumpet
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and the walls fell down and they conquered the city.
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Well, after they conquered the city,
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look at what God had instructed them to do in Joshua 6:19, he says:.
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Again, the priority, the emphatic priority is that it is first.
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And it says:
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And why didn't God say, "Hey, go conquer the entire land
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and then carve out of all the wealth and all the plunder 10%
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and give that to me"?
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He actually asked in the case of Jericho,
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for 100 percent of all of the plunder that they get.
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Why? Because it was the first city.
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So what God is saying here is give me 100 percent of the first.
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Give me a hundred percent of everything in Jericho
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and you can have the rest because of the principle of the first.
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So let me just give you a heads up right here
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just to make sure that we don't miss this.
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That means when it comes to our finances, my finances and your finances,
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don't give the first to the mortgage company.
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Don't give the first to the car company where you're financing your car.
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Don't think first about those things, because here's the thing:
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The mortgage company and the car company cannot bless your finances,
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but God can. God will when he is first,
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when we operate in the principle of the first.
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And why the first? Because it takes faith.
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It takes faith to make the first check the check to God
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and not to the mortgage company
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and not to the other bills that might be staring you in the face.
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It's the principle of the first.
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And it really is saying to God, "God, you have priority in my life."
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So you consecrate the first to redeem the rest.
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Point number two is: the first fruits must be offered.
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I want to key in on the word "must be."
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Right? Must be offered.
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Now, let's be honest, we all have experience
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with some of the fruits of our labor being offered
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without us having a choice in it.
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We all, you know, I think about my first job.
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My first job was at a --
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I was a gas station attendant at a place called Hess Gas Station.
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Does anybody remember Hess Gas Stations?
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So it was like, it's crazy.
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This doesn't exist anymore.
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It was full service gas.
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You'd roll up.
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And, you know, I had this like jumpsuit on,
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this white jumpsuit with green on it.
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And, you know, I'd check your oil and I'd pump your gas
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and I'd wash your windows.
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It was like full service.
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That was my first job.
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And I remember my cousin got me connected to this job
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and I was so excited because I was like a teenager,
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I was gonna make some money, you know, and to get a car.
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And I remember like calculating the hours that I had worked
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and like anticipating that first check.
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I was really excited about that first paycheck.
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That first paycheck is coming.
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And I open up the arm envelope and I look at the paycheck.
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And somebody named FICA had taken some money from me.
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And I don't know who FICA is.
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Reminds me of, I don't know if you remember that Friends episode.
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Who is FICA and why is he taking my money?
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Right?
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Here's the one I love. I love this one.
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I got another meme:
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That's how I really felt. Right?
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So we all know and have experience with not choosing.
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But isn't it interesting that God doesn't just, woops,
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it doesn't just disappear automatically.
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We have to give it to him.
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It has to be offered.
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Why? Because God wants us to choose obedience.
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He wants us to choose to put him first.
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So, again, we see this over and over in the scriptures.
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Another place where we see this principle of the first
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is in Proverbs 3:9-10, which say:.
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Now, again, this is in the Book of Proverbs.
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This is the book of Wisdom.
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This is thousands of years past Exodus.
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This is thousands of years past Joshua, those scriptures that we read.
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Exodus 23:19 puts it this way:
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God wants to make it very clear to us.
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The first of the first fruits, as if first fruits was wasn't enough.
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And notice the word is "bring" not give.
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It says you must bring the first of the first fruits
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into the house of the Lord, your God.
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And the reason is because we can't give what isn't ours.
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We can't give what isn't ours.
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Which means we really only have two choices when it comes to the tithe.
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We can either bring it or we can steal it.
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Remember that story of Israel and God saying to them,
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"When you conquer Jericho, I want 100% of everything to come to me first."
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Well, there was one man, his name is Aiken, and he stole from God.
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He did. He saved some things that should have gone to God
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and instead he kept them to benefit himself.
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And the next city that Israel went to conquer,
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Israel got demolished, and they didn't know why.
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They're like "What happened?"
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And God said to them, it's because Israel has stolen from me
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and they are cursed.
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God said, because you didn't operate in the principle of the first,
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all of what you have has been cursed.
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And that's true when it comes to first fruits,when it comes to our tithe
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that's consecrated and redeemed when we give it to God.
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But it's cursed if we keep it.
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Let me ask you a question, just a practical question.
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Why would you want anything cursed in your bank account?
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Doesn't that have enough problems of it's own?
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We don't need anything cursed our bank accounts.
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So there's something here.
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Robert Morris puts it this way in the book The Blessed Life.
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He says:.
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Now, you might be getting the impression that, you know,
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this idea of the principle of the first is really just about us.
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It's about us putting God first, about us making sure God is the priority.
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And yeah, there's definitely things here for us.
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But the reason this is a principle all throughout the Bible
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has nothing to do with us and it has everything to do with who God is.
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And the place where we see that is actually at
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the very, very beginning of the Bible in the Book of Genesis.
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The story of Cain and Abel,
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you heard Robert Morris reference it.
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We're going to dig into that a little bit because
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I want us to see this principle and what it teaches us about God.
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In Genesis 4:3-5, it says:
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The question is why?
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Two brothers.
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This is the first story of murder in the Bible.
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These are the sons of Adam and Eve.
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And eventually Cain kills Abel because of what happens in this exchange.
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But why didn't God accept Cain's offering,
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but he did accept Abel's offering?
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We get the clue in the actual verse.
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It says of Cain that Cain, in the process of time,
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not right away, brought an offering, not the first.
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But it says Abel brought the first.
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And so God accepted Abel's offering and he didn't accept Cain's offering.
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But what I want us to see here is
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it's not just that God wouldn't accept Cain's offering.
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It's that he couldn't accept Cain's offering.
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He couldn't. Why?
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Because, believe it or not,
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there are some things that the creator of the universe cannot do,
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that he cannot do.
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Here's a couple of things that God cannot do.
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God can not change.
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The theological word for this is immutability.
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It means that God is unchangeable.
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Because think about it this way: if God could change,
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that would mean he could get better.
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And if God could get better, that would mean he's not perfect.
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God is perfect.
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He doesn't need to improve on anything of who he is.
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So God does not change.
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He can't change.
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Here's another thing: God can't think.
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Not like you and I think.
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Think about it, we think to figure stuff out.
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Right?
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We have gaps in our understanding.
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So whether we learn from a book
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or if we're learning through relationships or through experience,
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we're trying to fill in gaps of things we don't know.
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God doesn't have any gaps that he needs to fill in his understanding,
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so God doesn't think the way that we think.
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Nothing has ever occurred to God.
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[laughter]
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Something that you have never heard, we'll never hear God say,
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ever, ever, ever is this God is never in heaven
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and has a moment where he says,
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"You know what I just thought of?" [laughter]
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I'll put it to you this way.
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God never comes across something in anywhere in creation
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and says to himself, "Oh, my self."
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[laughter]
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Right? Because he wouldn't say, Oh my God, because he is God.
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Right? That never happens, it never happens.
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That's why Isaiah 55:8 God puts it this way, he says,\:.
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God doesn't think, at least in the way
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that you and I think to figure stuff out.
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And here's the third thing: God can not be second.
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He can't be second.
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The theological word for this is pre-eminent.
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The Bible says God is above all things,
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he's before all things, he's beyond all things.
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He can never be second.
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And that's why he couldn't accept Cain's offering.
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I mean, I use this term, we all use this term.
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Hey, I'm trying to put God first.
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Right, I'm trying to put God first in this part of my life.
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I'm trying to put God first as I think about this thing.
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We all say that, but that's really --
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those are words that help us understand what we're doing.
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The truth is whether you are putting God first in your life or not,
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he's still first.
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If he's not first in your life,
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that doesn't mean you changed his order in the universe.
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It means your life is out of order.
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Because God is always first.
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The question is, are we aligning to that reality in our life?
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So he couldn't accept Cain's offering because Cain's offering
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was putting God in a place other than first.
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We need to think about that when it comes to the tithe.
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Think about it. If Jesus is God's tithe and he gave him first,
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maybe this idea of putting our tithe first
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means more to God the father than we think, because
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tithing really does show you who's first in your life.
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I mean, I can tell you all day, I can sit up here
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and say all kinds of spiritual things about
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God's first in my life. I'm a pastor and I love Jesus and all that stuff.
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But, man, if you look at my bank account,
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wouldn't it tell you really quickly?
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If you looked at my generosity,
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wouldn't it tell you pretty quickly if I'm just a bunch of talk?
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Or if I've actually oriented my life in a way that puts God first?
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So just to recap, number one, you sacrifice the first to redeem the rest.
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God did that with Jesus.
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And that's what happens when we put God first in our finances.
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And second, the first fruits must be offered.
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There has to be a choice of obedience we make to offer our first to God.
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And the third point is this: the tithe must be first.
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So as we've been unpacking this series, we've said the tithe again is
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the first 10% of your gross income given to your local church.
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That's the definition of the tithe.
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Why your gross income?
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Because if it's your net income, that means you're putting FICA first.
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You're putting the government first.
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That's why it's based on the gross.
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And those of us who tithe, I mean, I can tell you, I've been --
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I'm so thankful my parents taught me this.
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And I can just tell you, I've seen the blessing of God
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as I have been faithful in this area of my life.
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It doesn't mean I'm a millionaire.
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It doesn't mean I'm ever gonna be a millionaire.
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But I can tell you, I have seen incredible provision
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and blessing in my life in a bunch of different areas,
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not just money as I have done this.
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And some of us are walking this out right now.
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Like Brian said, many of you have stepped into the tithe test
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and you're saying, "Hey, for the next 90 days,
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I am going to put God to the test.".
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God says to test him.
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And some of you have signed up to do that for 90 days.
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You're going to tithe.
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You're going to make God first in that way in your finances.
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If for any reason you don't see and experience God's blessing in your life,
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that money's going to be returned to you at the end of 90 days.
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But I believe God's going to come through on his test.
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And I just want to say, if this is new to you,
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like some of you are like,
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"Man, why did I pick this weekend to come to Crossroads?
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My buddy's been inviting me, but why this weekend?
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Like what's this about?"
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Let me just tell you, I understand.
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This is challenging, it's not like I came out the womb tithing.
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I didn't. This is a journey that I've been on.
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And in fact, I was reminded of how this journey is one
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where we have to grow into it this week,
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when I had a unique opportunity to teach my Mingo children
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about the principle of tithing.
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- How was Halloween? Did you have fun?
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- You got a lot of candy?
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- All right. So, hey, there's a spiritual principle called tithing.
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And what it means is, yes, Isabelle?
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- I'd like to pray today.
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- You'd like to pray? All right. We're going to pray after we do this.
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OK?
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- But here's the tithing looks like.
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We take, lets say we've got ten pieces of candy.
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That means we have one of those pieces to God.
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But since God doesn't eat candy, you're gonna give them to me.
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- You're not God.
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- No, I'm not God. So lay out your candy and you're going to give me --
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What? You don't want to give me your candy?
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- Do I have to lay it all out?
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- You've got to lay it all out.
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-This is not worth it.
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- Are you going to give me your candy too?
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- I am.
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- No, Nathan's going to give me more than one.
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Look at all these candies he has. So if we count these, I tell you what.
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Let's say, let's just assume, Nathan, you've got, what's that look like?
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30 pieces of candy, 50?
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30?
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All right, so you've got to give me three pieces of candy.
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That's the tithe.
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Okay.
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-You'll let me choose? That's cool.
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- I gave you two pieces.
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- You gave me two pieces? Which ones did you give me?
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- This one and this one.q
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- You gave me a Reece's?
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All right, Nathan, you're letting me choose the three piece I want?
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- Three pieces.
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- OK. So, you know I like Snickers.
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So I'm gonna take Snickers.
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- Go.
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- I'll take the full sized Hershey's with the almonds.
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- That wasn't smart.
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- What wasn't smart?
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- For you to do that?
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- Because like --
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- You want this one?
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- No, no, it's fine.
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- You want this one? I'm not going to.
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- No, I'm not taking it.
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I'll take a Reece's from you.
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I really like Reece's.
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I'll take -- you're giving me your full size Twix?
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- That's my Twix.
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- You would, really?
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Okay.
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- This is my Twix.
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- You're saying I should take this Twix?
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- Would you give me your Twix?
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No, you're not going to give me yours, but I should take your brother's?
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Okay. All right. Okay.
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- Milk Duds.
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Isabelle, did you give me your tithe, your candy tithe?
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- What did you give me?
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Would you let me choose or are you going to pick for me?
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- She gave you the Reece's.
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- Do you like these?
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- No.
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- So you're giving me what you don't like?
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- Yeah. I don't want that. I don't like it, I don't even try.
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[laughter] So we're on a journey in my house around tithing.
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It's good for all of us to see.
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Did you notice how easy it was for my kids to give each other's candy to me?
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Like they didn't have a problem with that,
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but theirs it was like, oh, hold on.
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It was really interesting to have that experience with them.
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This is a journey for us.
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You know, it's a journey of the heart.
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God is about our hearts in this.
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Leviticus 27:30 says:.
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And I want to emphasize that word holy.
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This is not about what God needs to do to fund his enterprise.
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He doesn't need our money to fund his enterprise.
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That's not what makes this conversation holy.
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What makes it holy is whether we're willing to put him first in our finances
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says so much about whether we're willing to put him first in our lives.
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And that's a holy thing.
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That's what God is up to in our lives.
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So gonna give you a math illustration,
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which is dangerous for me because I'm nobody's mathlete.
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That is not my skill set.
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But I want to -- just just go with me on this.
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Let's imagine that you are, let's say you're a landscaper.
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And I have paid you to do a job for me.
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And after, you know, materials cost you X
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and then your time and labor whatever ever cost you Y,
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and then your profit is a thousand dollars, a thousand dollars.
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So I'm paying you a thousand dollars because that's what you tithe on,
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you tithe on your increase, you tithe on your income.
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And so if I'm paying you a thousand dollars,
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the question I have for you is this: how much is the tithe?
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Hundred dollars, right?
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Here's my second question: Which one of these is the tithe?
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That's right. I put it to you this way: The first one to leave your hand.
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The first one to leave your hand is the tithe,
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and that's what God wants us to do.
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Now, how does this play out practically for me in my life?
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How many people have heard the budgeting principle: Pay yourself..?
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Right, pay yourself first.
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What I learned from my parents was, no, give to God first.
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And so I get paid on the 15th in the last day of every month.
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And there is an E gift. It's an automatic thing that comes out first.
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Because for me, this is a heart thing and I want God to know
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you are first in my life, not only in my finances,
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but yes, actually in my finances as well.
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I want to put him first.
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In fact, if you look at any budget I've ever made,
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you'll always see I structure it the same way.
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After all of the income that I put up top,
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my first item of what comes out is the tithe.
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And generosity, it's the top of the list because I want God to say --
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I want to say to God, God, you are first in my finances.
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So we started with Exodus 13 and God establishing this principle of first born.
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And we're gonna finish with that same chapter, Exodus 13:14-15 says this:.
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God wanted this to be a teaching tool that Israel could use
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with their children to help them understand the principle of first.
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Think about it in modern terms, imagine a son goes to college,
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he comes back from college, he's working in the family business.
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And he's going through the books
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and he begins to see a monthly pattern that troubles him.
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And it is that every month the father
is giving away $50,000 of the family profits.
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You would imagine that at some point if the boy didn't understand
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this principle the first he would go to the father and say,
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"Dad, what's going on with this?
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Why are you giving away $50,000 a month of our profits?"
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And that's the opportunity for the father to say to the son,
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"Son, the reason I do that is because you need to know
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something about our family. We didn't always have a business.
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We didn't always have the assets that we have.
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In fact, son, we didn't have anything.
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We were slaves.
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But God, with a mighty hand, saved us, rescued us.
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And he's given us everything that we have.
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And that's why I gladly give him the first of every month of our profits."
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I told you that last Friday my dad passed away.
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And I was thinking about how his life really did model out this principle.
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This principle of "but God."
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See, my dad had a B.C.
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life, he had a life before Christ.
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This is one of the pictures that we put in his memorial.
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This young strapping man with a cigarette hanging out of his mouth
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in Europe during the Korean War.
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And man, my dad told me some stories about what happened in Europe
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that I dare not repeat on this stage because he had a B.C.
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life.
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My dad had a life where he wasn't always a follower of Jesus.
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In fact, I remember when I was a kid, I was about 3 or 4 years old
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and my dad would have these like the Big Gulp plastic cups
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from 7-Eleven or wherever he got them from filled with alcohol.
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My dad was a drinker when I was born.
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He was not a follower of Jesus.
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And I remember seeing Jesus save my father.
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I mean, saving him.
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I'm not using that as a religious term.
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I'm telling you, my dad was saved from his past.
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He was saved from drinking.
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And from the time that that happened till the 91st year of his life
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when he passed away, I never saw my father pick up a drink again.
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[applause] He was saved. He was saved.
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And so last Friday night, not last Friday, a week ago, before Friday,
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my dad had dementia in his later years.
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And I had moved him to Cincinnati.
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And he was here with me and my family.
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And we loved just the time that we got to spend with him
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those last couple years.
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He loved being a part of Crossroads.
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He was here as much as he could be here.
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And I know because he had dementia,
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that he had forgotten a lot of those things.
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And I remember being in the hospital bed with my dad
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and saying, "Dad, I want to tell you your salvation story."
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And I told my dad, I said, "Dad, you used to be a drinker.
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And I remember that. I remember your B.C.
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life.
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But God with a mighty hand rescued you, he saved you, Dad.
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And ever since that day, you've put God first.
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And I know that your life is different.".
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And friends, I've got to tell you,
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as I sat there watching my father leave this life,
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I knew that he was going to a new life.
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And it changed everything in the room.
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It changed everything in the room.
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My friend Jim Gormley captured a photo that is very, very meaningful to me.
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This is from 2012 when my dad came to Cincinnati
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and was a part of a message that I gave on this stage,
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it was a part of his journey that we did.
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It was about having a seat at the father's table.
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And one of the reasons I brought my dad
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is because my dad was a fan of breakfast,
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my dad made a hot breakfast for -- a hot and heavy breakfast.
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You guys remember that if you were here.
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A hot and heavy every morning, that was like his thing.
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He always gave us that kind of breakfast.
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And so I brought my dad here.
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And the way we finished that service is
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we had biscuits and bacon for everybody at Crossroads.
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So you could get a taste of what it was like at the Mingo table.
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It was awesome.
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And Jim captured this moment, this embrace and the kiss,
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because one of the things my dad also taught me
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is that it is not effeminate for father to kiss and love his son.
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And I'm so thankful for that lesson.
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And I think about this picture.
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And when Jim sent it to me, I had two thoughts go through my mind.
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And I believe one of them was from me.
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I believe one of them was from God.
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And you might say, "You wanted to believe this was true.
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This was your grief speaking."
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Maybe so.
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But let me tell you what I thought.
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In that moment the first thought I had was,
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"God, I am so thankful for every time I got to embrace my father.
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I'm so thankful for the B.G.
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moment in his life.,
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the "but God" moment in his life that changed his life
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from a life of sin and brought him into a life of freedom.
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I am so thankful for that."
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And then I felt like I heard Jesus say to me,
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"You see that embrace? Do you see that kiss?
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That's exactly how I welcomed your dad
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when he came into my presence last Friday."
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[applause].
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It was just like that.
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00:57:35
My dad wasn't always a believer.
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My dad didn't always put God first,
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but God with a mighty hand, saved my father.
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When I was 8 years old, my father baptized me.
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So I will gladly put God first because I know
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that my life left out of here,
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my dad left out here with a life in order.
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Because he put God first.
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And so every week we've just been asking you to to pause
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00:58:03
and ask, "God, what are you saying to me?"
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What is God saying to you through this principle of first?
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What is it that he wants you to know, to hear, to do today?
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I just want to give you a moment,
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00:58:16
just in the quiet of where you are right now, if you're online,
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00:58:18
if you're in a room to ask him,
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"God, what do you want me to do with what I've heard today?".
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Just ask him. Take a moment.
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- Well, I hope that you have some great food for thought
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00:58:51
and then you're gonna put action behind it this week as you put God first.
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You know, wherever you are on that spectrum of believing that
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or ready to do that, we would love to pray for you.
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00:59:04
We have staff and volunteers who right now would pray for you by name
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for the specific thing that you want from God or that you need right now.
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So if you chat with us on the Crossroads Web site,
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00:59:16
you can head to Crossroads.net
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00:59:18
and click on the chat button in the bottom right hand corner.
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And we would love to pray for you.
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Next week, we're going to continue our series, The Blessed Life.
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We'll see you back at a location near you
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or right here on Crossroads Anywhere.