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- Would you like to
be rewarded by God
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and have Him multiply
the impact of your life?
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I know I would.
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- Yeah, me too.
- Same.
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- Okay, cool.
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Well it comes down to
the answer to the question:
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Am I generous?
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Welcome to Crossroads.
We're Kyle Ranson.
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- We're doing a series
called The Blessed Life.
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We did this series
several years ago,
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and it's one of the
most powerful series
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that we've ever done.
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And you're going to hear
some stories from people
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who went through it before,
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so powerful that we're
going to do it again.
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Now, I got to tell you,
that kind of hurts my pride
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because we haven't really
repeated very much at all
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at Crossroads the last 26 years.
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And the first time we're
going to repeat something
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came from somebody else.
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We borrowed this content
from Gateway Church
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in Dallas, Texas.
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I had pastor after pastor,
person after person saying,
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"Oh my goodness,
this material is,
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sounds like a really
religious cheesy word,
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but it's true, is anointed."
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There's something
special about it.
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Now, listen, this
is not a campaign.
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There's no commitment
coming at the end
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where you're going
to sign anything.
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There's no big ask of you to
whatever, whatever, whatever.
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This is not a campaign.
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We are going to challenge you
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because Jesus challenges us,
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but we just want you
to listen, consider,
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and ultimately be blessed.
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That's the Blessed Life.
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- Matthew 6:21, Jesus said,
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Look, I get it, when a
church talks about money,
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it feels terrible and
awful and all those things.
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But you got to hear me.
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Even if you don't believe
me right now, it's okay.
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This is not about getting
something from you.
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It's about God
getting your heart
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and you experiencing
the blessings
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that only come from your
heart being in His hands.
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You have to know this is a
deeply personal message to me,
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maybe more than any
other message I ever give.
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Because what I've experienced
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and what I've seen of
God through generosity
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is at the very
foundation of my faith.
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It's why I believe in Him.
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I'm going to start with a
basic assumption about you
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that if you're watching,
you want more of God.
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If more is available, you'd
be like, "Yeah, I'd take it."
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And if that's true,
there's a simple
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but critical question you
and I have to ask ourselves:
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Am I generous?
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It's intentionally
in the first person
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so that when I say it,
I'm asking about myself.
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I'm not actually asking you.
I'm not talking about you.
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I'm not looking at you.
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I'm thinking about
me. Am I generous?
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And when you ask the question
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you're asking about yourself,
not not someone else,
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not your neighbor or whoever.
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Are you generous?
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That's the question you're
asking, and about me.
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And to help get an answer,
we're going to examine
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one story today from
the Book of John.
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I'm convinced I'm actually,
like, inside of this story.
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I know that sounds crazy,
but I think you are, too.
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On the surface,
there's five characters.
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There's Jesus, Judas, two
sisters, Mary and Martha,
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and their brother Lazarus.
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You have to know this happens
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on the day before Palm Sunday,
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which is only six days
before Jesus was crucified.
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We'll jump into the
story in John 12.
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Now there are two
important questions
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to ask about the story.
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First, why would Mary give
Jesus such an extravagant gift?
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And two, why would
Judas get so upset?
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There's also two
hearts displayed here:
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a heart of generosity
and a heart of selfishness.
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I want you to notice what
revealed each heart generosity.
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Again, our question
is: am I generous?
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I think we all want
to be generous,
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but we're actually born selfish.
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Selfishness is the
enemy of generosity.
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It's how we're born.
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One of the first words
a child learns is "mine."
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The crazy part,
parents, you know this,
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you don't have to
teach it to your kids.
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I have three small
kids right here.
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This is Ben and Gracie and Eli.
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I never once had to
teach them the word mine,
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but I hear it all the
time in my house.
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Typically, when this
one takes something
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that belongs to this one, he
says, "It's mine, mine, mine."
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And when I hear that, I react
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like somebody just poured
ice water down my shirt.
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Nothing makes me more upset.
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Then I have to go find
that sound in my house
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and end that sound.
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And the problem for
these children is generally,
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I don't care whose it was,
because right now it's mine.
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It's Dad's, and
I'm putting it away.
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Nobody gets it.
That's how we solve it.
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You're looking for justice.
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I'm just looking for quiet
kids. That's all I want.
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Because at this moment,
I don't care whose it was.
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Now, God uses mine when
He talks about the tithe.
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He actually says the tithe,
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the first 10% of all
of our income is mine.
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It's important to note,
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if Gracie were to give Ben
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something that already
belonged to Ben,
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return a Lego that she
had taken and give it to Ben,
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that was already his,
would that be generous?
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I'll ask you this.
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If I handed you something
that was yours to begin with,
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when I return it to you,
am I being generous?
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Well, the answer is no.
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Why? Simple.
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I can't give what's not mine.
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I can return it to you
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and you could bless
me with a thank you.
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But that's not the
same as generosity.
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See, generosity is what I choose
to do with what's truly mine.
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Do you notice in this story,
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Judas is holding
the offering box,
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which is odd because
who would have given
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Judas the money box?
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Who is the leader of the bunch?
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It was Jesus.
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Why would Jesus give
Judas the money box?
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After all, He knew
Judas was a thief.
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It's clear if you go back
and you read the story
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two years before this moment,
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Jesus actually looked
at his 12 disciples
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and he said, "Did I
not choose you 12,
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and one of you is a devil?"
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He knew about Judas.
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And yet still, He put the
money into his hands.
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Why? Was it to tempt him?
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Was it to get him to fail?
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Was it to-- was it to
really put him down?
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No, I don't think so at all.
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I think Jesus was testing him
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in hopes that he would pass.
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See, God will test you.
He will never tempt you.
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James says that
God tempts no one.
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He's not trying to tempt you
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with what he's put
into your hands.
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But God will actually
test you in your finances
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to give you an
opportunity to pass.
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In the book of Jeremiah
God says, "I test your heart."
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See, the answer to am I generous
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is not what you think or feel.
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It's exclusively about
the results God sees
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when He tests your heart.
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- Hey, guys. My
name is Andy Reider.
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I'm the community pastor
for Crossroads Anywhere,
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and this is my
good friend, Paco.
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Hey, I love what Kyle has
to say about generosity.
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Right?
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And how we can experience
more of that in our own life.
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- That's right, man.
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Being generous is like
a level up from tithing.
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Like, when we're tithing,
we're giving God what's His.
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- Yeah.
- And, like, am I generous?
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Am I giving God what's mine?
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Like, what a great
message so far.
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It's been really good.
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This series has
been awesome too.
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This series has been really good
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and really challenging,
helpful for people, hasn't it?
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- Yeah, it's one of those
things that, like, man,
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I think it's like life, like,
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you get out of it,
what you put into it.
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And we really have leveled up.
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We've leaned in
throughout the series.
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So, well done. Stay
strong through the end.
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I just want to,
like, put this out there.
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I say this regularly,
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but if there's anything
that we can do,
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like, we can do to help
you in your spiritual journey,
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in your adventure with
God, we want to do that.
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Don't hesitate to reach out.
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Anything we do to
help, we want to do that.
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- You know, we have
scripts for these things
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and we, like, say stuff
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and we're about
to go off script.
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Do you remember
when I had my first kid?
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- I do.
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- The first person I saw
when we were walking
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into the hospital,
elevator comes down,
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Andy Reider is standing there.
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- It's like 4 in the morning.
- That's right.
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- We had -- we both
were there to deliver.
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- Yeah.
- It was crazy.
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- Seeing you in that
spot gave me a sense of,
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like, "Okay, cool,
God's got my back."
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And dude, I think that's
a calling on your life
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to, like, be alongside people
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as they get closer to
Him as they go through life
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and remind them that
God has their back.
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So, take this guy
up on his offer.
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Take him up on his
offer, email him, hit him up.
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It's good stuff for you.
- Paco, thank you for that.
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- Hey, we don't want
to talk about this stuff.
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We want to show how it
plays out in the real world.
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So, here's a story of
someone in our community
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experiencing the Blessed
Life and generosity.
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- My parents always --
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I always knew that they
tithed and they gave.
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We didn't have a lot of money,
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but we always had
enough to pay our bills.
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- I didn't have a lot of
money as a college kid
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or anything like that,
but I always wanted
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to be a part of big
things that were going on.
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- And then when we got married,
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it was sort of continued
that habit of tithing,
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even when we didn't
have very much money.
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It was, like, years
and years and years
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of God saying no
to different jobs,
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you know, to
increasing our finances,
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to us working harder
to get out of debt.
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It was a lot of waiting.
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Unemployment with
two house payments
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and a one part time job
between the both of us.
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You know, there was a lot
of brokenness and frustration.
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I think it was a season
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when all of our
cars were breaking
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and we lived in a house
that was a money pit.
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And I think our hot
water heater broke.
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And I just -- and then
I broke, you know,
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and I'm like, "When's
it going to be our turn?"
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You know, like --
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And I remember he was
like, "Every day is our turn.
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You know, every
day that we wake up
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and our biggest debt is paid
for because Jesus died for us,
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like every day is our turn."
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And that has just stuck
with me for so long
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because it didn't fix,
like, that statement
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and that truth didn't
fix a hot water heater.
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It didn't change our
finances, you know,
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but it really helped me
have a different point of view.
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- As we have gained more money,
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I think God challenged
us on it to go,
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"Are you for real?
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If I give you a little
bit more money,
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will you actually
do those things
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like you said, you
always wanted to?"
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And I think we do.
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One of our favorite
things is we have
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a line item in our budget
that's called God's checkbook.
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It is just a pile of
money that builds up
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waiting for a need.
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- A coworker whose
husband died unexpectedly
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before Christmas, or a friend
who really needed therapy,
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being able to pay for, like,
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six months of
counseling for them.
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Adoptions for friends.
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I think it can be like
awkward to talk about money
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because it sounds like
the prosperity gospel
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or like transactional,
like I do this for God
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and then He does
this for me, you know?
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But I can just tell
from our experience
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and we had so many
years, like I said,
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of just hearing no, and He
was still good and faithful.
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But this is just our
experience now.
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And He keeps giving it
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and we keep trying to
be faithful giving back.
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- Jesus said that we should
count the cost of following Him.
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I regularly try to think about
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what could I have
done with this money
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and how does it compare
to knowing Jesus?
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And it's, like, I've not
found anything better.
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I count the cost
regularly. He always wins.
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- Any time you hear
stories of generosity,
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they sound just like that
because God comes in
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and He's so excited to
have someone's heart,
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that He just starts
to bless them.
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It's the Blessed Life and
it comes through giving.
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But did you know there are
actually three levels of giving?
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See, Malachi talks about
tithes and offerings, plural.
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Now, tithes are level one.
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It's returning to God
what's His every single time.
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Level two is offerings,
regular giving above the tithe.
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And then the other
kind of offering
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is extravagant offering.
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Now, if you get
to the first level,
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you'll get to the
second and the third,
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because the first level
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breaks the curse
over your finances.
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This is Sarah and I's
story, my wife and I.
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See, after we got to
the first level of tithing,
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after we made that hard decision
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to give to God what's
His, we kept on going.
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We got to level
two of offerings,
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which is above tithe giving.
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And we never felt God to ask us,
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and we've actually
continued to increase
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the percent of our income
we give away above the tithe.
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Why? I mean, we didn't have to.
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There's nothing explicitly
that says in the Bible,
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"You must do this."
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But, you know, if
you read that story,
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God never told Mary
to give the gift either.
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There's no record of
Jesus ever asking her
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for what she gave,
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but He sure seemed
to appreciate it anyway.
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And for Sarah and
I, we just recognize
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God's been so faithful to
us and we're so grateful.
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And so we choose to give to God.
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We choose to offer
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some of what He says
is truly ours to Him.
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And there's level three,
the extravagant offerings.
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Sometimes we get
this extra prompt,
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we feel like God's asking
for an extravagant offering.
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Just kind of a moment
where it feels like,
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"Hey, would you? Would
you give that for me?"
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And you know, it's extravagant
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because it'll feel painful
at first every single time.
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And the amount is important.
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To us each time
it's felt extravagant.
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And that's the point.
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I'm telling you this,
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it's the very
foundation of my faith.
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This one, more than
anything else, is why
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if someone said, "Do
you believe in God?
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Explain to me why."
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I would point to stories of
when I gave extravagantly
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and how God showed
up in my life in a way
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that I could have never
managed on my own.
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The first extravagant
offering we ever gave
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was a small prompt in
hindsight to give $500
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to friends who
were getting married,
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but they just couldn't
afford to print invitations.
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They were paying for
everything on their own.
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So Sarah and I
stepped in and we said,
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"Hey, we'd like to cover
the invitations for you."
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We didn't even
know them that well.
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Didn't even go to the
wedding ourselves. Okay?
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But can I tell you,
15 years later,
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these same people are now
some of our closest friends,
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to the point that our kids
call them uncle and aunt.
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See, what's crazy
is God got rewarded
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$500 of extravagant giving
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with 15 years and
counting a friendship.
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A few years ago, God
prompted us to give
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the most extravagant
gift yet, which at that point
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was the larger portion
of a year's salary.
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And we're a single
income family.
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Sarah stays at
home with our kids.
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And so for us, it's
a pretty big deal.
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00:15:19
God just said, "Would
you give this to Me?"
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00:15:21
That was the
impression that we have.
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00:15:23
He was just gently saying,
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00:15:24
"Hey, this is what
I'd like you to do."
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00:15:26
And I'd love to say that
our immediate response
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00:15:28
was like, "Yes, God, of
course, of course we will.
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00:15:31
We'd love -- whatever
you ask for, absolutely."
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00:15:34
But honestly, we sweated
it at first, it was painful.
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00:15:37
It was only over the
course of a couple of weeks
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00:15:40
that we opened up and we
said, "Okay, yes, God, yes.
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00:15:43
You've been so
faithful to us in the past.
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00:15:46
We've seen Yu
show up in the past.
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00:15:47
Whatever you ask for, if
we sense You're asking for it,
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00:15:50
it's Yours.
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00:15:51
We'd love to be generous.
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00:15:53
We would, because You've
been so generous to us."
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00:15:56
Listen, if you're watching this,
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00:15:58
I'm not telling you
a dollar amount.
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00:16:00
I'm just telling you and
encouraging you to say yes
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00:16:02
to whatever prompting
God gives you,
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00:16:04
whatever He asks you for.
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00:16:05
I promise you'll look
back years from now
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00:16:08
and the rest of your life,
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00:16:10
and you'll be so grateful
that you just said yes
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00:16:13
when you give
an extravagant gift.
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00:16:15
Now, let's talk about
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00:16:17
why Mary gave
her extravagant gift.
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00:16:19
Why would she do that?
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00:16:20
Why would she give a
year's wages to Jesus?
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00:16:24
We actually don't
have to wonder.
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00:16:26
It's because two months
before that exact scene
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00:16:29
of her giving that
extravagant offering,
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00:16:31
two months before
that, her brother Lazarus
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00:16:34
had been raised from the dead.
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00:16:37
The story actually says
that Mary fell at Jesus's feet
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00:16:40
weeping as she ran out
as he was coming into town,
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00:16:43
she fell at his feet weeping,
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00:16:44
and she covered his
feet in tears of grief
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00:16:47
because her brother had died.
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00:16:49
And she was just so sure if
Jesus had only been there,
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00:16:52
if He'd only shown up for
her, he wouldn't have died.
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00:16:54
And she falls down,
covers His feet in tears.
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00:16:58
Jesus comes in, raises
her brother from the dead.
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00:17:03
And here we are
two months later,
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00:17:05
and she does the
most natural thing.
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00:17:07
She assumes the same posture.
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00:17:09
She falls at His feet
and she gladly pours out
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an extravagant
offering of gratitude,
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covers those same feet
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00:17:16
that her shed her
tears on in perfume.
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00:17:20
It's extravagant.
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00:17:22
See, generous people
are grateful people.
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00:17:25
And I just want you
to think for a minute.
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00:17:27
If one of your family members
was raised from the dead,
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00:17:31
would you be grateful?
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00:17:32
Do you think that might
change how you give to God?
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00:17:35
Let me just remind you
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00:17:37
that all of us who
believe in Jesus
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have been raised from the dead.
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00:17:41
Ephesians 2:1 says:
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She was going to pour out a
year's wages on something,
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00:17:48
you know, she was going
to spend it on something.
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00:17:50
I think there had to be
this moment where she went,
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00:17:53
"I could either spend it on
somebody that's decaying
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00:17:55
or the only thing on this earth
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00:17:57
that will outlive death: Jesus."
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00:17:59
And when that happened,
Jesus knew He had her heart
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00:18:02
and He rewarded her.
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00:18:04
Why? Because God
always rewards generosity.
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00:18:09
The same story is
in Matthew and Mark.
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00:18:11
Mark 14:9 says:
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00:18:22
Jesus literally says,
"This thing is so amazing,
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00:18:26
I promise for the
rest of human history
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00:18:28
this story will be
told to honor her."
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00:18:32
That's a reward.
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00:18:33
Mary was entirely rewarded.
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00:18:35
She didn't come to get a reward.
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00:18:36
That wasn't her motivation.
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00:18:37
She didn't come to Jesus going,
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00:18:39
"I really hope this pays
off for me in the long run
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00:18:41
while I dump this perfume on?"
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00:18:42
No, she just gave
out of gratitude.
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00:18:45
But when you give
out of gratitude,
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00:18:47
God always rewards
that generosity.
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00:18:51
See, selfishness
is when you give
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00:18:52
and you think God
owes you something.
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00:18:54
Generosity is when you
give to get nothing back.
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00:18:57
And amazingly, God
always rewards it.
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00:18:59
See, God will reward
you, sometimes financially,
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00:19:02
but He'll give you things
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00:19:04
that are far more valuable
than money or boats
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00:19:07
or whatever nice things
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00:19:08
that you could possibly
buy in your own.
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00:19:11
He'll reward you with true
riches, non-financial things,
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00:19:15
the kind of stuff that
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00:19:16
no matter how much
money you have,
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00:19:18
you just can't buy,
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00:19:20
things that only God
can make happen.
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00:19:22
It's called the principle
of multiplication.
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00:19:24
See, no one can multiply
the impact of your giving
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00:19:28
like God, no one can.
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00:19:31
Now, I told you that Sarah and I
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00:19:34
gave that last
very large amount,
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00:19:37
the one that was
hard to give it first.
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00:19:38
And eventually we got around to,
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00:19:40
we said, okay, okay, okay.
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00:19:41
And I have to be honest,
we've gotten rewarded
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00:19:44
and we did see
some financial return
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00:19:47
at the start of
giving that money.
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00:19:48
We had no college savings.
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00:19:50
By the end of paying it off,
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00:19:52
we had a year's
tuition in the bank.
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00:19:54
We got a beautiful house on land
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00:19:55
that we shouldn't have
been able to afford.
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00:19:57
We even got a free
trip to Hawaii in there.
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00:19:59
Crazy things, they did happen.
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00:20:00
And I wouldn't be
honest if I held those back
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00:20:02
just so you wouldn't
think I was strange.
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00:20:04
You hear this all the
time when people give.
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00:20:07
But I want you to know,
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00:20:08
none of those are what I
consider the true reward.
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00:20:12
The true reward was something
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00:20:13
I could have never
made happen on my own.
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00:20:16
During that time, both
of my sons, Ben and Eli,
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00:20:22
on their own,
separately, came to me
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00:20:23
and asked if they
could get baptized.
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00:20:25
I didn't convince them
to, I didn't sell them.
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00:20:27
I know I'm a pastor.
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00:20:28
You probably think, like,
every night, you know,
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00:20:30
I sit down before bedtime
and I just grill them on,
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00:20:32
like, "Do you want to get
baptized? You should."
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00:20:34
No, none of that at all.
I never talked to them about it.
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00:20:37
They just came
to me. They asked.
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00:20:39
And when they asked, I
didn't just make it easy.
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00:20:41
I raised the bar.
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00:20:42
I said, "Hey, do
you know this means
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00:20:43
you're saying to God
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00:20:44
that you'll follow
Him no matter what?"
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00:20:47
"Yeah, Dad, we understand that."
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00:20:49
"Okay? Do you know this means
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00:20:50
that you have to give
Him some of your money?"
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00:20:52
"Yeah, we understand that."
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00:20:53
"Well, do you know
this means really,
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00:20:56
no matter the craziest
thing He ever tells you to do,
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00:20:58
you say yes?
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00:20:59
If Jesus says give
all your toys away,
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00:21:02
you would do that?'
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00:21:03
They were like, "Yeah,
yeah, Dad, we will.
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00:21:05
We want to follow
Jesus with our whole lives
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00:21:08
no matter what."
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00:21:09
Then on November 19th,
2017, both of my sons
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00:21:13
gave their lives to
Jesus through baptism.
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00:21:16
That's a reward.
That's a reward.
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00:21:19
And I'm telling you,
no matter who you are,
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00:21:21
God has something
waiting for you
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00:21:23
if you're willing to step in,
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00:21:26
if you're willing
to be courageous,
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00:21:28
if you're willing
to walk the road
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00:21:30
that most people,
frankly, aren't.
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00:21:32
But if you do, I'm telling
you, there'll be a reward
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00:21:34
and you'll never,
ever regret it.
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00:21:40
- Man, look, I can't
tell you how, like,
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00:21:43
encouraging it is to
know that when I step out
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00:21:45
and give God what's
mine, when I'm generous,
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00:21:48
that then He steps
in and multiplies it
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00:21:50
and does the thing that I
could never do on my own
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00:21:52
and help people, man.
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00:21:53
Talk about being blessed, dude.
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00:21:55
That's what it's all
about right there.
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00:21:56
Good job, Kyle.
- Well done.
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00:21:58
Yeah, there's something
cool that happens.
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00:22:00
Like, when we're generous,
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00:22:03
we're just following
God's example,
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00:22:04
like, we're doing for other
people what He did for us.
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00:22:07
And there's actually an
example of that coming up
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00:22:10
where, man, I hope
you would experience
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00:22:12
some generosity from God,
some blessing from God.
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00:22:15
It's a thing we do every month.
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00:22:16
It's called Monthly
Night of Prayer.
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00:22:18
It happens online
so you can join
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00:22:20
from wherever you
are, whatever time zone.
-
00:22:22
You don't even
have to get dressed.
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00:22:24
You can just join from the
comfort of your own home.
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00:22:26
And there's worship.
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00:22:27
There's music that
actually I'll be leading
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00:22:30
with some friends
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00:22:31
and there's a time for
you to receive prayer.
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00:22:33
And we've seen God
show up in amazing ways.
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00:22:35
We've seen,
like, legit miracles.
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00:22:37
I know that sounds crazy.
I know you might be skeptical.
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00:22:39
We've seen God show up.
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00:22:41
We've seen people
healed of stuff.
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00:22:42
We've seen people hear from God
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00:22:44
and get direction
for their career,
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00:22:46
for their family,
or for their life.
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00:22:48
It's a powerful time.
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00:22:49
7:30 December 1st, would
love to have you join us.
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00:22:52
- That's real.
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00:22:53
Some people are
like, "Oh, another zoom."
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00:22:55
Oh, stop it.
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00:22:56
There's not many places
that you can get prayer
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00:22:58
and receive prophetic words
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00:23:00
and encounter God in a real way
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00:23:01
while having fuzzy slippers on.
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00:23:03
So, this team has
done a great job
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00:23:05
of putting that together.
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00:23:06
And God wants to be generous.
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00:23:07
He wants to like throw
blessings your way.
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00:23:09
Take advantage of that, man.
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00:23:11
- That's right.
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00:23:12
- Speaking of fuzzy slippers,
it's Christmas season.
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00:23:15
- It's coming up, man.
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00:23:16
- What's your favorite
Christmas movie?
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00:23:17
- Favorite Christmas
movie. That's tough.
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00:23:19
I make sure I see Elf
every year. Every year.
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00:23:23
- It's like Elf is on
repeat the whole month?
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00:23:26
- It makes it easy, right?
-
00:23:27
- So, the Christmas
movie with the little kid
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00:23:29
and the leg lamp,
what's that one called?
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00:23:31
- Christmas Story, right? Yes.
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00:23:32
- I like it.
- So good.
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00:23:33
- Next week, Brian's kicking
off our Christmas series
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00:23:36
where we're going to unpack
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00:23:37
some nostalgic Christmas movies
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00:23:40
and tie those into
the story of Christmas
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00:23:42
as we see it in the Bible.
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00:23:43
You are not going
to want to miss it.
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00:23:45
See you then.
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00:23:50
- Well, hey, Andy Reider here,
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00:23:51
community pastor of
Crossroads Anywhere.
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00:23:53
And I've actually been
on staff at Crossroads
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00:23:55
now for like 12 or 13 years.
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00:23:57
So, I want to tell you
something I've learned.
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00:23:59
It's that around this place,
the only constant is change.
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00:24:02
We're always experimenting.
-
00:24:04
We're always changing things up
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00:24:06
to figure out what will
serve people better.
-
00:24:09
And I want to give
you a heads up
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00:24:11
about one of those
changes that's coming up
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00:24:13
actually starting next week.
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00:24:15
For the last two years or so,
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00:24:17
we've actually
created two versions
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00:24:19
of our weekly message
that you can experience,
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00:24:21
one that's filmed here
in front of a live audience,
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00:24:24
and another that's kind
of, like, prerecorded,
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00:24:27
shot on location or in
a studio some place.
-
00:24:29
And the change that we're making
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00:24:31
is we're actually
consolidating those
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00:24:33
into one common experience.
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00:24:35
One common experience
is going to be filmed
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00:24:38
right here on stage in
front of a live audience.
-
00:24:41
We think that's going
to be the best thing
-
00:24:43
that we can offer, and
this is really important,
-
00:24:47
the thing that gets
me really excited, like,
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00:24:49
and it frees up resources
to continue to experiment,
-
00:24:52
to continue to take ground,
-
00:24:54
to continue to try new
things and create new things
-
00:24:57
that we think will help
people understand God
-
00:25:00
and His care and
His love for them
-
00:25:02
in new and profound ways.
-
00:25:04
We actually shot our first
pilot this past Thursday,
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00:25:06
and man, I got
to see some clips.
-
00:25:08
It's amazing stuff.
It's amazing stuff.
-
00:25:10
So, while this is going to be
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00:25:12
just a little bit
different for some of us,
-
00:25:13
I think it's going to
reiterate and just remind us
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00:25:17
of the fact that
we are one church
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00:25:19
and get us all more aligned
and more on the same page.
-
00:25:23
And we're grateful
for you being with us
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00:25:25
on this journey to
experiment and to, as we say,
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00:25:28
build a new kind of church,
-
00:25:29
a new kind of
church for the future.
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00:25:32
Thanks for being with us.
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00:25:33
We're grateful.
Have a great one.