For the Win! | Spark Talks Week 1

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Hey, everyone, and welcome to Crossroads Church.

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My name is Hannah Shepherd

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and I am so glad that you joined us today.

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Wherever you are on your spiritual journey and adventure,

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we believe Crossroads is here to equip you.

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Well, speaking of adventures, we're kind of all on one

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that we've been opted into, whether we wanted to or not,

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and that adventure is COVID-19,

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because like most people, 2020 has felt a little canceled.

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Well, what if there's a bright side?

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What if there's some good that could come out of the bad?

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Today, we're starting a series which we do every year

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called Spark Talks.

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But this year's a little bit different.

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We're going to hear from speakers about

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how they haven't just been living but thriving during COVID-19.

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And you might just hear something

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that sparks something in you and ignites your life.

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- We've all been forced to pause, reset,

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and reclaim our futures in light of the chaos of 2020.

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There's always darkness in adventure

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when you're not sure where you're going.

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Join us for Crossroads Weekend Spark Talks

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and hear from people who will challenge you

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with new ideas to ignite your life.

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- Hi, I'm Brian Tome, Senior Pastor at Crossroads.

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All of us have lives that are disheveled,

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things that are out of order,

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or at least we're not getting things we'd like to have,

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like sports. Can we all say, I want a Final Four?

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Can we all say, I'm bummed about

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the changing in schedules with baseball and football

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and just all across the whole thing.

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Sports are actually an incredibly important part of our life.

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It's not just a way for us to detach.

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Believe it or not, there's actually spiritual truths

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contained in athleticism.

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There's athletic metaphors in the New Testament.

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And when we engaged in athletic pursuits,

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we're actually engaged in things that mirror

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the spiritual pursuits of our normal day to day lives.

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I think we're so inspired by sports, not just because

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it allows us to get away from our normal, same old, same old,

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but it also helps us to understand spiritual realities.

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There's things that take place in athletics

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that mirror the spiritual realm.

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Today, we're going to talk to some professional athletes

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who are at the top of their game

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and they got to the top of their game,

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whether it was physical or spiritual,

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because of certain attitudes and certain disciplines they had.

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And these attitudes or mindsets are seen in the Bible

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again and again, things like delaying gratification.

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I could enjoy something now,

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but I'm not going to enjoy it now.

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I'm going to do something else now,

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because if I delay the gratification,

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later on I'm going to have more gratification.

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Other ideas like sacrificing for the team,

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understanding I'm part of a collective whole unit

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and we all have to win.

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If we all don't win, then I don't win.

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In the book of Galatians 6:9-10 it talks about this when it says:

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We're just not seeing that kind of selflessness

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in our culture today and maybe that's why we're not winning.

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Maybe that's why we're at each other's throats all the time.

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Maybe that's why we're frustrated

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and we're just not going forward because every man,

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every woman for himself

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and no one's sacrificing for the team,

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for the culture, for society.

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If you're a believer and you're aligning yourself with God,

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this is going to be something you're going to do,

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you want to grow into.

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It's something athletes understand.

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It's something people who are getting closer to God understand.

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And then also just the good old fashioned hard work,

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just not having faith, but having your faith in action.

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The Book of James is all about faith that takes action.

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It says this:

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Every professional athlete goes into a competition

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knowing that they can win,

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but if all they had was faith, that wouldn't do it.

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They have faith and an attitude

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that things are going to go their way,

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but they've also put in the hours in the weight room.

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They've also had the chalk talks.

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They also have their ten thousand hours of reps.

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You can't self talk yourself to winning.

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Well, why don't we hear from some professional athletes?

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Because this isn't theoretical for them.

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This is something they have lived.

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This is something that they are living.

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They can actually teach us something about the spiritual realm,

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not just life, but they could teach us something about God

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and how God works with His people.

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I believe they're going to spark something inside of us today.

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- Hello, my name is Anthony Munoz

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and I'm a member of the Pro Football Hall of Fame class of 1998.

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Most of you would probably agree that

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the last four or five months have been a little difficult

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with COVID-19 and having to make some adjustments

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in our routines and being able to do this and not that.

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And I've been right there with you,

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so I've had to step back, reevaluate my routines,

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how can I make adjustments?

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How have I been able to make those adjustments?

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And it takes me back to my athletic years

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and I think about training.

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Training, because I needed to be prepared to make those adjustments.

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I think about the 4 years of high school football that I trained,

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the 4 years of college football that I trained,

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the 13 years in the NFL that I trained.

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It was not easy training those 20 plus years.

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And we look at life. Life is not easy.

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Life has not been easy for me.

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And I'm sure you can say the same thing.

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It's been tough.

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But I truly believe that the training I went through

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in preparation for sports, it's given me the mindset

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to be able to prepare and make adjustments.

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I look at my spiritual life.

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We have to study God's Word and move into Bible studies,

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not only in topics of things that we're going through,

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but let's get out of our comfort zone

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and learn things that we might not be going through.

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But let's train and be prepared.

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I look at what God allowed me to study with my wife

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and other couples prior to COVID-19:

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Trusting God by Jerry Bridges.

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Oh my goodness, what a great book.

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Not only have I read it two or three times

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with my wife and I alone,

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but we've gone through Bible studies with it.

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Or Put on the Armor by Chuck Lawless.

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I've been reading all that and all of a sudden

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I'm faced with all this adversity and all these readjustments.

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So spiritually, we have to be able to train,

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continue to train regardless good times, bad times

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to be ready for those adjustments.

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With our relationships, we have to be willing to train

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and lay it out on the line,

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just like I did in the weight room.

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I've got to be able to to converse with my wife.

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Forty two years we've been married.

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I've learned how to talk through the different things,

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we've been praying together in the morning, Bible studies.

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Training, preparation with your spouse,

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with your siblings, with your family, with your friends.

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Train and be prepared in your relationships.

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Lastly, when I think about training,

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I think about physical training.

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I'm old, but I think I can still get in the weight room

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and in the exercise room and still do a pretty good job.

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Maybe not as long as I used to,

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maybe not as many pounds lifting, but I can still get it done.

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It's something that I've continue to do.

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As I talked about high school, college, and pros,

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training has allowed me to keep a clear mind,

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to stay physically fit

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and to have confidence that I can make those adjustments in life.

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Same thing when you find adversity, injury.

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You might not be able to train your left shoulder

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if it's hurt, but train the rest of your body.

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If you're going through some adversity in your life,

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heal yourself up in that area, but continue to train.

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Counseling, studying the Word, Bible studies,

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and get well in that one area.

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And that's what I would encourage you to do,

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continue to look at ways you can train to be prepared

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so when those times come, you can make the adjustments.

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Thank you and God bless you.

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- I'm back here with Anthony Munoz, a legend in football,

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arguably the greatest offensive lineman of all time,

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and where I am here in Cincinnati, just a legend.

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This training, I'm really hit hard by this because

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we can't try our way to a deeper walk with God.

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Personally, in the midst of this COVID-19 thing,

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my training regimens are off.

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So do you have anything for us as far as

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how to start new rhythms, how to start new training,

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how to start new things?

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- I think it's just being creative.

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I think it's, you know, really there's a lot of times

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I'm sure you think outside the box.

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I think that has to be the case with training.

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And one thing I learned in training,

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I don't have to have a full workout room

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with all kinds of weights, is body weight, dumbbells.

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- So you had a shoulder injury.

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Have you ever had like a pinky injury?

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Has that ever happened to you?

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- Well, why would you ask?

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- Oh, my gosh.

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- I mean, like, seriously.

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- I know. I know. People say mine's gross.

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I say, "You should see Anthony's." Oh, my gosh.

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- It's close, it's close.

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- It doesn't hurt, so that's good.

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- Well, the physical stuff,

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the training stuff physically seems to be straightforward.

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But we're I'm challenged by what you said

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is the training in marriage,

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having a workout that you're doing in your marriage

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or your relationships.

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Do you look at every sector of your life

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and do you see something you want to train

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in every area of your life?

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- I do. I try to.

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Now physical training, my training with my spouse

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are probably the two easiest for me

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to really focus and get after it.

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I'm sure a lot of you probably agree,

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the spiritual part is the toughest being consistent.

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- Let's say somebody would say to themselves,

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"I'm not a very disciplined person."

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I hear a lot of people say that.

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How would you see someone get started in any area?

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- Well, when I talk, I talk about choices.

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There's things that we have to do

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that we might not want to do or feel like doing,

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but we know in order to be excellent or to get it,

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we have to do them.

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And that's -- I know it sounds easy, but it is tough.

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And the one thing I share is when I got here,

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I moved here from Southern California.

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Running was a big part of my regimen.

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If I felt like being excellent and I woke up

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and it was 35 degrees, I feel cold, I feel tired,

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or I'm going to choose to be excellent

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I'm going to put --

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we didn't have all that nice cold weather stuff

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back when I was playing.

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- Back in my day we had cotton.

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Back in my day we had a scarf that my mother wove for me

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out of weeds in the backyard.

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- So it's funny you mention.

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I would take a towel and put elastic in it

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and that would be my face--

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But I would go out and I would not cut any of my running out

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because it was too cold.

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So that's what I share with people.

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I mean, that's the only way I know

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is that I could have felt like getting out of my environment,

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single parent home, not having a whole lot,

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or I could have I chose to get out of that environment.

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- Is there any area of your life that you find

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specifically difficult to train in?

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That you just feel like it's hard for me

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to get traction on this one?

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It's not like falling off a log.

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- Easy one: self talk.

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People think you accomplish this, you're doing this,

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you must be so confident. You must be --

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My self talk, I mean, and I ask for forgiveness all the time.

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It is not the best self talk.

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I mean, I tear myself down.

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I -- I don't feel -- and it is just one of those things.

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I don't know if -- I'm still trying to figure out,

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is that the way I motivate myself?

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But it's not good. It's not good.

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I mean it's -- that -- it's easy for me to say,

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I -- my self talk to myself is just the worst.

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I really at my age, I need to really work on that.

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- Do you have a training regimen to overcome that?

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- I try. I mean, it's something that I work on and --

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- Try how?

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- Well, I mean, I have a whole sheet of self-esteem scripture's.

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- OK.

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- And it's like, why-- why can't -- I mean --

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- That's great.

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- So you look at that.

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- You look at that and internalize it?

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- Yeah, I look at them and I mean the fact that

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we're God's children and I mean created in His image.

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I mean, just, you know, all the scriptures of --

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- There's therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ.

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- Yeah. And that -- and it just --

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I can tell you that that is one area

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that I am so inconsistent in

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and I need really to work on.

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- Thanks for your vulnerability.

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I mean, I feel that.

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I was a literal orphan. I'm adopted. I was --

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And part of the orphan mentality is

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you're only as good as your last accomplishment.

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You're afraid someone is going to reject you.

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You -- no one gives you, you've got to go, go, go, go, go.

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And it -- Yeah, I'm -- I'm --

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I'm regularly feeling awful about myself

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or feeling I don't measure up to somebody

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and it doesn't end for me.

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I'm just -- I'm the same way with you, Anthony.

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It doesn't end with me.

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Crossroads could be going great.

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but I hear about somebody who's doing something better

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or something I haven't thought of,

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and I immediately feel like, "I'm a loser. What is my problem?"

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Any moments I can just be put in a tailspin

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because I feel like I don't measure up.

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And yeah, that's why I'm asking.

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If you've got tips for that, I'll take more.

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I think the scriptures are good.

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- Yeah, I -- I can't -- I can say probably honestly

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that it's not -- I don't look at somebody like,

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you know, he's faster, stronger

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and I don't feel like I measure up because I'm not that.

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It's just an internal thing with myself.

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- Yes.

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- It's just a constant battle.

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I mean, you know, it's kind of like, you know,

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it's not like, "Well, he accomplished this, I didn't.

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It's almost like I didn't do it for myself, you know,

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it's just it's really hard to explain.

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- Well, it may be hard to explain,

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because I have a feeling this is a very common thing

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with with people right now.

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I think this is a normal thing.

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It's just -- it's like a curse that we live under.

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I don't know if it's our culture

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or if it's our humanity, but just great, great insights.

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Hey, Anthony, thanks for being with us today.

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I mean, having a Hall of Fame,

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arguably the greatest offensive lineman ever.

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And actually where I am right now in Cincinnati,

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one of the most respected, most honored people in our city.

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It's really an honor to be with you today.

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It humbles me to hear those words

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and it's great being with you always.

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- You know, I used to play football and I was going to go pro,

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but then I decided to become a pastor instead.

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No, I could barely get out of varsity.

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Yeah. Hey, one thing I do know for sure I'm not lying about

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is God is faithful.

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And one of the commitments I've made and many of us have made

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is whenever God increases something for us financially,

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whether it's our paycheck or whatever else,

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He will get a set percentage back.

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We're a tithing church, many of us tithe.

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10 percent, goes back to God, goes back to our church,

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or many of us are beyond 10 percent,

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or some of us are working our way to 10 percent.

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But we want to be faithful.

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And whether you have a job right now

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or you don't have a job right now,

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I hope we can all remember that God is faithful

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to do for me things I couldn't do for ourselves.

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So we're going to recognize that right now.

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For those of us who are going to be givers,

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you can go to Crossroads.net/give

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or you can text Crossroads to 313131.

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Next up, we get to hear from an NFL running back.

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We got to spend some time together

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and I ended up teaching him a few of my moves.

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- What's up, everybody? My name is Boston Scott.

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I was born and raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana,

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and I play for the Philadelphia Eagles.

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I'm a running back.

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2020 has definitely been an interesting year, to say the least.

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And I know there's been a lot of ups and downs,

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has been frustrations, there's been a lot of circumstances.

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But I hope that by sharing my story,

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I'm able to encourage you a little bit

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about how God has changed my mindset and my perspective.

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And I hope that it encourages and motivates you.

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My mom made sure that I was in the church,

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in the church is just how we say it down in the south.

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During that time I had a great understanding

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of Jesus being my Savior.

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Great idea, but not so much Jesus being my Lord.

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And so playing football,

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I started playing football in seventh and eighth grade

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and my identity was in football.

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It dictated my actions, it dictated my mood.

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If I was doing well, I would feel good.

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If I wasn't doing well, I'd be down in the dumps.

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And what I was trying to do was I was trying

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to fill the hole in my heart with with football

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when it was a Jesus sized hole.

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And so whenever I hit rock bottom, I was feeling empty,

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I was feeling a lost, I was feeling frustrated.

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I realized that nothing that this world has to offer

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can fulfill me in the way that that God can.

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And so I made the decision to commit my life to Christ

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at 16 years old.

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From there, my mindset kind of shifted.

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It kind of shifted because I knew that

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nothing could pluck me from His hand.

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It was all about faith, you know,

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and in a world full of inconsistency,

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He was the only consistent.

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And so now I started to view these circumstances

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and these frustrations as opportunities to grow,

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opportunities to share His love.

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And so fast forward, I went to Louisiana Tech University

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in ole Ruston, Louisiana.

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From there I walked on and I had the opportunity

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to play for four years

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and I ended up earning my scholarship.

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And I became one of the only ones in my class to get drafted.

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I got drafted by the New Orleans Saints.

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I get to New Orleans and your boy hits another obstacle.

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I get assigned to the practice squad.

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It's pretty frustrating, you know, because you believe

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that the coaches don't believe in you,

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the organization doesn't believe in you.

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You're a hometown guy and in Louisiana

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and you're on the practice squad.

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I mean, what going on, man?

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At least show your boy some hometown love.

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Give you a boy shot.

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It didn't happen.

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Again, I was able to view this as an opportunity

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to work on my craft, to get some work in

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against one of the most stingy run defenses

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in the league at the time.

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And then 2020 -- later that year, Philly comes knocking.

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Philly comes knocking on the door, finally my time,

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finally my time to shine.

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So I get out there, I get my opportunity and I'm able

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to contribute to the team and everything's going well.

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You know? And now fast forward to where I am today,

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I'm sitting in a pretty good situation, you know,

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going into probably one of my biggest years

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in my NFL career, 2020 come knocking on the door.

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"How you doing?" Not good.

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And so, you know, it's been frustrating at times,

00:19:55

but I've been able to focus on these times as opportunities.

00:20:02

My father had a stroke back in 2018 and it's hard.

00:20:08

It's not easy going through what he did

00:20:11

and then also the process of getting better,

00:20:14

the process of returning to normalcy, you know?

00:20:18

And with everything shutting down,

00:20:19

he's not able to have access to some of the therapy

00:20:22

that he was able to have access to before COVID happened.

00:20:26

And so now I'm doing speech therapy with my pops.

00:20:29

2020 has definitely been crazy.

00:20:31

I don't know about ya'll,

00:20:32

but your boy is ready to get back on the field

00:20:34

and I'm choosing to have hope.

00:20:37

I'm not going to view my circumstances as obstacles.

00:20:40

I'm going to view these as opportunities to grow

00:20:44

and become who God is call for me to be.

00:20:47

And I hope that you do the same thing too.

00:21:00

- You know, very few people reach the upper echelons

00:21:03

of the National Football League,

00:21:06

let alone win a Super Bowl as a player and a coach,

00:21:10

let alone get to talk to such a person.

00:21:13

Well, today, we're talking about legends.

00:21:16

Legends like Mike Ditka, Tom Flores, Tony Dungy,

00:21:21

and our guests today,

00:21:23

current head coach of the Philadelphia Eagles, Doug Pederson.

00:21:27

Doug spent the majority of his professional career

00:21:29

playing with the Green Bay Packers, winning Super Bowl XXXI.

00:22:03

Anybody who beats the New England Patriots is a friend of mine.

00:22:07

He has plenty to teach us about perseverance, hard work,

00:22:09

and what it takes to get the best out of others.

00:22:12

I'm beyond excited to welcome Coach Doug Pederson.

00:22:15

Welcome to The Aggressive Life, Coach.

00:22:17

-Hey, Brian, thank you so much for having me on.

00:22:19

That's -- that's a lot of energy right there for that intro.

00:22:21

I do appreciate it.

00:22:23

- How are you doing with the whole COVID stuff,

00:22:25

and as a relational guy,

00:22:28

probably having to be a lot less relational?

00:22:30

- Yeah, you are.

00:22:31

And that's the part that has been probably

00:22:33

the hardest to get used to, you know, because

00:22:36

we missed an entire off season with our players

00:22:39

being in our building, being in our facility.

00:22:41

We did a lot of these, you know, Zoom or Microsoft teams meetings.

00:22:45

You know, that's the part I miss.

00:22:46

I miss being around the players this spring and my coaches.

00:22:49

And I think that's where you start --

00:22:51

that's where you really begin laying the foundation

00:22:54

for your football team and you start building

00:22:56

and cultivating those relationships in the spring.

00:22:59

And we missed all of that.

00:23:00

But I'm going to tell you something.

00:23:01

My hat goes off to to my staff and our trainers

00:23:05

and our sports nutrition people and sports science people,

00:23:11

and sports performance people.

00:23:14

What a great job they did,

00:23:16

continuing to cultivate and build relationships,

00:23:18

even though we were doing it like this, you know,

00:23:21

through a computer screen.

00:23:22

And, you know, it's just something I just can't wait

00:23:26

to get back into the building,

00:23:27

can't wait to get back around the players.

00:23:28

And, you know, it's something that we'll learn from

00:23:32

as we move forward, even even after, you know,

00:23:35

after these next few months pass.

00:23:37

- Everyone wants to be led and led well, don't they?

00:23:40

Whether you're a high school athlete, professional athlete.

00:23:43

I find my kids, I keep thinking I'm done leading them.

00:23:46

I keep thinking I'm done parenting them.

00:23:48

But no, it never ends, man, they want dad on his game.

00:23:52

- Right. Being around my players and my guys,

00:23:55

they want to see authentic, real, transparent guys.

00:24:01

It's the same way with parenting, with --

00:24:04

I have three boy,s and my wife and I,

00:24:06

they want to see the authenticity,

00:24:08

they want to see transparency.

00:24:10

They want to see that were real.

00:24:12

And, you know, even though as dads sometimes

00:24:15

we try to walk around and we have the the supermen mentality,

00:24:20

like we can do everything

00:24:21

and we will do anything and everything for our kids.

00:24:24

It's OK to to say, "Hey, let's let's figure this out together.

00:24:27

I don't have all the answers."

00:24:28

And that's what these players really want.

00:24:30

- Another thing that's interesting about your reputation

00:24:34

is I remember before I knew you

00:24:38

and just watching pregame for that the Super Bowl victory

00:24:42

that you had as a coach and reading stuff beforehand,

00:24:45

there was quite a bit of buzz around the faith component

00:24:51

in the Philadelphia Eagles locker room.

00:24:55

Is that something that's normative for other NFL teams

00:24:58

or is there something unique that's happening

00:25:01

with you and the Eagles?

00:25:03

- You know, it's hard to speak for other teams,

00:25:05

but I would say for me and for the Eagles,

00:25:09

it's how I want to lead the football team.

00:25:11

You know, I think my faith is first and foremost.

00:25:15

I wouldn't be sitting here today, obviously, you know,

00:25:20

without my relationship with Jesus Christ.

00:25:23

And I, you know, I'm not ashamed to say that.

00:25:26

And I even said that on the podium after the Super Bowl,

00:25:29

that, you know, that all of the success is because of Him.

00:25:33

And I continue to lead my team based on, you know,

00:25:37

my relationship with Christ

00:25:39

and how He instructs me on a daily basis.

00:25:41

- In leading an organization where obviously

00:25:44

not everybody in the locker room is a person of faith

00:25:47

or has interest in it, are there things

00:25:48

that you do as a leader of faith,

00:25:51

that you think people in the boardroom

00:25:53

or in their own businesses could do with with people

00:25:56

who report to them that don't share their faith?

00:25:58

Any secrets you've learned?

00:25:59

- I do a coaches Bible study that, you know,

00:26:02

just invite the coaches if they want to come in

00:26:06

on a Friday morning, you know, during the season

00:26:09

and spend 30 minutes in the Word, you know, great.

00:26:12

I encourage the players.

00:26:14

The players have Bible studies during the week.

00:26:17

And you're absolutely right, and everybody's different,

00:26:20

everybody's level of faith is different.

00:26:25

Not everybody is a believer.

00:26:26

But for me, it's taking what I've read that day

00:26:31

and being able to sort of intertwine that

00:26:34

into my message to the team.

00:26:36

- COVID-19, it's upended much of our world.

00:26:40

It's upended our sports.

00:26:41

My gosh, how good was it when you could actually

00:26:45

go to a stadium and you could scream and drink beer?

00:26:49

And it's mind blowing that us as leaders

00:26:51

have had to learn new skills

00:26:53

that we never thought that we would learn.

00:26:55

I haven't been in the room, in a room with our staff,

00:26:59

all our staff in a room for, what, four months now?

00:27:03

I tell you what, there is vision drift

00:27:05

when a leader can't get with his folks.

00:27:07

We're doing the Zoom calls and all that stuff,

00:27:08

but it's just -- it's just tough.

00:27:11

How are you leading during the COVID-19?

00:27:13

How are you -- How are you -- How have you adapted?

00:27:17

- At first I really didn't know.

00:27:45

I mean, you know, you learn how to do things

00:27:48

and be creative, whether it's, you know, having

00:27:53

virtual workouts from our strength and conditioning staff,

00:27:56

to have virtual workouts with our players

00:27:58

and be able to put them in pods.

00:28:00

And they're all over the country, but yet

00:28:02

they can still workout virtually,

00:28:04

bringing in guest speakers to speak to the team.

00:28:07

We're not making excuses. We're going to embrace it.

00:28:10

And whatever direction we go in the future,

00:28:14

we're going to embrace that as a football team

00:28:16

and as an organization.

00:28:17

And I think the biggest thing is what it's taught me,

00:28:23

not only as a coach, but as a leader,

00:28:25

even the leader of my family, is that it's OK to --

00:28:30

it's OK to take a step back from life sometimes

00:28:33

and just kind of hit the pause button

00:28:35

and just take a deep breath,

00:28:37

just kind of kind of exhale just a little bit

00:28:40

and slow down from the fast paced lifestyle

00:28:44

that we all seem to live.

00:28:47

= All right. So, Doug, this has been a great time.

00:28:50

Is there is there any anything else you want to talk about

00:28:53

that we haven't asked you about

00:28:54

or anything you want to you want to push that we haven't mentioned?

00:28:58

This is your time to help people connect

00:29:01

with whatever you want them to connect with?

00:29:02

- Well, obviously there is a book, Fearless.

00:29:08

It's a book I wrote after the Super Bowl.

00:29:11

It just talks about -- it just talks about

00:29:14

how an underdog becomes a champion.

00:29:16

And really, even though you're on top

00:29:43

that's kind of how I tick, I guess, each and every day.

00:29:44

- I don't think that message of fearlessness we can hear too much.

00:29:48

I mean, America is not the land of the free

00:29:50

or the land of the fear.

00:29:52

We have more anxieties and stresses and fears,

00:29:56

more seatbelts, helmets, insurance policies,

00:30:00

more meds consumed than any culture in the history of the world.

00:30:04

And I'm not against helmets and safety helmets

00:30:08

and insurance policies. I have them all.

00:30:10

I'm not against meds.

00:30:11

I'm just saying if we take a look at our culture, man,

00:30:14

we are emotionally sapped as far as creativity,

00:30:20

because we're just -- we're just crushed with fear.

00:30:22

And I think it is also part of why COVID-19

00:30:25

just plays right into where we are,

00:30:26

we're looking for things to fear. It's not good.

00:30:28

So any time someone's got a book to help us

00:30:30

get our hands around that, that's great news.

00:30:33

- Yep, you're absolutely right.

00:30:34

And, you know, I just -- I feel for so many people

00:30:39

who have lost their jobs or have lost loved ones

00:30:42

through through this pandemic.

00:30:44

And, you know, but as as we say as a football team

00:30:48

and we have a phrase that we use a lot

00:30:50

and it sort of the mantra for

00:30:53

the 2020 Philadelphia Eagles is stronger together.

00:30:58

And if we stay united, stay connected, stay grounded,

00:31:01

stay stronger, we're going to get through anything.

00:31:04

And our country, our country will get through this as well.

00:31:08

And, you know, I'm just encouraged by that

00:31:12

and I wake up every day, you know, seeing where I can make a difference,

00:31:17

whether it be in our our community or with our team.

00:31:20

And I truly believe that if we continue to stay strong,

00:31:24

that we'll get through this.

00:31:25

We'll get through this together.

00:31:27

- Doug, it's been an honor and pleasure, brother.

00:31:29

I'm really thankful for you.

00:31:30

I can't wait to see you guys winning.

00:31:31

And I'm hoping to see a face to face again sometime.

00:31:36

- Yeah, I appreciate it. Thanks again.

00:31:38

- All right.

00:31:40

- Well, we've heard from an NFL running back

00:31:42

who's coming in to the top of his game,

00:31:44

the greatest NFL lineman maybe in history in Anthony Munoz.

00:31:48

A lot of stuff today and a lot of depth today

00:31:51

if we understand the source of what they're talking about.

00:31:56

Anthony shared with me a page of some of the quotes

00:31:58

that he looks at that are inspirational for him.

00:32:00

He also shared me some of the verses that he looks at

00:32:03

to deal with his spiritual self-esteem that we talked about.

00:32:05

Here's one of them.

00:32:07

It comes from the the from the book of Ephesians

00:32:09

and it says this:

00:32:41

You know what this says, it says that

00:32:44

you're not who you are based on your beliefs,

00:32:48

you're not who you are based on your moral choices

00:32:52

this last week.

00:32:53

Your beliefs, your moral choices are important.

00:32:55

But the reason why Anthony meditates on this

00:32:58

and we all need to is because it says that

00:33:01

the gospel says who you are, Jesus says who you are,

00:33:06

and it says God had a thought and a vision for your life

00:33:11

that you're not here by accident.

00:33:12

You're not here by random amalgamation of proteins,

00:33:15

that He knitted you and formed you together

00:33:18

in your mother's womb, that He's got a purpose for you,

00:33:23

and that He adopts you into His family.

00:33:25

I'm physically adopted into the Tome family

00:33:29

because I was orphaned at birth,

00:33:31

but I was physically adopted into the Tome family

00:33:34

and God adopts all children into His family.

00:33:39

You have been adopted in this family

00:33:41

and you have a purpose on this earth.

00:33:44

It doesn't matter what you've done,

00:33:45

it matters what God is doing in you.

00:33:47

It matters the purpose He has for you.

00:34:26

I want us to actually worship together.

00:34:27

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	Brian Tome	1:07
	Anthony Muñoz: “Training for Life After the Hall of Fame”	5:24
	Boston Scott: “Turning Obstacles Into Opportunities”	16:18
	Doug Pederson: "Staying On Your Game"	20:50
	Worship: Trust	34:27
	Worship: Way Maker	37:56

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