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- What was the most important
tool in Jesus's ministry?
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In the history of the church?
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Was it giant cathedrals?
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Was it stained glass windows?
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Was it fog machines,
sound systems?
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What about lasers?
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No, it's this: food and drink.
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Eating and drinking was a
key to Jesus life and work.
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In fact, Jesus
used food and drink
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and meals around
tables to change the world.
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And you can, too.
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Today we're going to
unpack the beautiful picture
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of community that's
put to page in the Bible
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and how a simple thing
that you're already doing
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every day could be
repurposed to change
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the social and
emotional landscape
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of your life and of our world.
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But before we get
there, I want to tell you
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something that I
actually learned
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while watching Ted
Lasso a few months back.
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You know, scientists
used to believe that
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trees competed with
each other for sunlight
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and resources in,
like, a Darwinian battle.
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But what we're learning now is
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that's actually not the case.
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Trees actually work
together to grow
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and grow best when
they're together.
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- Deep in Sequoia National Park,
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towering around 380 feet tall
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stand the giants of the forest,
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the tallest trees on
Earth, the giant sequoias.
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Many of these trees
are over 2000 years old,
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and these colossal sequoias
withstand strong winds,
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earthquakes, fires,
storms, flooding, and time.
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The giant sequoias are
equipped with a root system
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that's relatively shallow,
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going down only
6 to 12 feet deep.
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Remarkable, given their
size, weight and stature.
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How is it these mammoth
trees rarely fall over?
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These trees have
been designed with roots
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that reach out and
around and intertwine
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with the roots of the
neighboring sequoias.
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They are linked together
by an underground network
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that proves to be
unwaveringly strong.
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They are held up
by their community.
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There in nature God
gives us a picture
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of a rooted community,
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an ability to sustain
in difficult times,
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to withstand, to
grow and to thrive
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beautifully and uniquely
linked together by community.
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- Well, you and I
aren't that different.
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We grow better together
when we're with other people.
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Right?
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And today I'm going to show you
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not just what Jesus had
to say about community,
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but how you can grow your own.
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I'd propose to you
that the most useful tool
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that Jesus had at his
disposal was something that
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is sitting in the middle
of your kitchen right now.
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No, it's not your Vitamix or
even your coffee machine,
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but your table.
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Let me just stop here.
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We've been on this Journey now,
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on this journey looking to grow,
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looking at these
different practices,
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trusting that something
in them will grow us,
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will stretch us, will
bring us to a new place.
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There's a reason
why we're ending
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on this idea of communities,
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because all those
other great things
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happen best when
we don't do them alone.
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When we do them in
the context of community.
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We can be like those
redwoods, where we grow tall,
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where we grow strong,
where we build something
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and grow something
that lasts for generations.
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That's how you and I
can follow Jesus's example
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for using our tables not just as
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a platform to
consume calories from,
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but as a catalyst for
community, for growth,
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for life change that
can change the world.
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Matthew and Luke's
Gospels both catch
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a really unique
phrase on this topic
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that was lost on
me until recently.
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The phrase goes like
this: The Son of Man.
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The Son of Man came.
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It's used twice in
short succession,
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that would have
been like a highlighter.
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It would have
jumped off the page
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to the people
hearing it at the time.
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They would have
intuitively recognized
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that these two
uses of this phrase
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mean that they go together,
like two sides of a coin.
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So, let me give them to you.
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Matthew 18:11 says:
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This is just beautiful.
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This is Jesus's
mission. It's His purpose.
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It's His what, it's what
He came to do, right?
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To seek and save the lost.
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But it's followed up with
Matthew 11:19 that says this:
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It actually goes on to say,
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"The Son of Man came
eating and drinking.
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And they say, 'Here's a
glutton and a drunkard,
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a friend of tax
collectors and sinners.'"
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This was like people
knocking on Jesus
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for hanging with the people
who didn't measure up.
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But this the Son of Man
came eating and drinking
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is Jesus's how.
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It shows us that Jesus
best tool for ministry
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was the table, and He understood
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that a meal isn't just a meal,
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it's setting the table to grow
with God and other people.
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Around a table people
are invited into a family.
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They're nourished not
just to survive, but to thrive.
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For example, just
in the Book of Luke,
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there are ten stories
that happen at meals,
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where enemies are forgiven,
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where the outcast
are invited in,
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where the hungry are fed.
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Man, you've got reconciliation,
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you've got social
justice, you've got rest,
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service, humility,
storytelling, great wine,
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comfort food and more all
happening around a table.
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But the table isn't most
people's picture of church,
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right?
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If I were to ask you to send
me a picture of a church,
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you'd probably send me
something with a stage
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or a steeple.
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And those are totally fine.
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Those are buildings,
though, not the church.
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The church is people.
It's you and me.
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Scripture is really
clear about this.
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So, how did we get
from a poor, homeless,
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itinerant rabbi and
some fishermen
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to massive auditoriums
and fog machines?
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Well, let me give you
just a little bit of a history.
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And so I'll be honest,
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I'm going to nerd out
on you for like 2 minutes.
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So when Christianity
first started, it was illegal.
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Like, it was --it was
seen as like the punk rock
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alt culture to mainline
Judaism or Roman paganism.
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It was under the radar
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and those who practiced
it were persecuted.
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It was made up mostly of
like small clusters of families
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living in close knit
communities where they,
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like, lived, worked, worshiped,
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and ate in really close
proximity to each other.
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I actually had a chance
to visit one of these homes
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in a place called
Capernaum where, like,
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they're pretty sure
they found Peter,
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like, Saint Peter's legit home.
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It's like 100 feet from
the temple on one side,
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100 feet from the Sea
of Galilee on the other.
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Like, Jesus
probably stayed in it.
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It was so cool. Anyway.
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But this was a time in
the life of the Church,
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of Christian community,
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where they couldn't
gather publicly.
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And so their architectural
choice at the time was,
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you guessed it, a
home gathered around,
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you know it by
now, a table, right?
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So, their architectural choice,
the building was a home,
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gathered around a table,
emphasizing community.
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Fast forward a few hundred years
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and you've got this guy,
Emperor Constantine,
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who ruled the Roman Empire.
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He converted to Christianity.
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Some would say this was legit.
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Others would say it
was like opportunistic,
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he saw the writing
was on the wall.
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But overnight
almost, an illegal sect
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suddenly became the
official religion of an empire.
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And as a result of that,
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there was a bunch
of empty temples
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to, like, Zeus and whatever
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that were all of a sudden vacant
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and got turned
into churches, right?
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These temples and later
cathedrals, man, they were big.
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They were -- they
emphasized the majesty of God
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through art and architecture.
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The acoustics were terrible.
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That didn't matter
because the sermons
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were all in Latin, which,
like, nobody understood.
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But they had stained glass.
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They had ceilings that
stretched to the heavens.
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They had stuff,
like, covered in gold.
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Their architecture was a
temple gathered around an altar
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and it emphasized ritual.
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Phase three in our history
goes a little bit like this.
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So after 1000 or so years,
including the Dark Ages,
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a little thing called
the Reformation hit.
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Martin Luther was a guy
who saw a bunch of abuses
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by the Catholic Church,
and he nailed 98 theses
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or complaints
against the church,
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like, to the wall of the church.
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It was like a -- it
was a bold move.
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So, as a reaction, like, there
was a split that happened
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where Luther basically said,
"Hey, if people understood,
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really knew, like, we're
taught what the Bible says
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they would understand
and we wouldn't be subject
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to these different abuses
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and they wouldn't be
taken advantage of."
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So, their architecture took on
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the characteristics
of a lecture hall,
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like, tiered seating around
a central stage or podium
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where the acoustics were good,
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people could hear and
sightlines were good.
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And look in any church building
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in the last couple
of hundred years,
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including Crossroads ones,
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and this is still kind
of the prevailing idea.
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A lecture hall style building
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centered around a stage
emphasizing teaching.
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Now, I love big
auditoriums with lights
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and sound systems so
everyone can hear every word.
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I was a musician
for most of my life,
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but I just don't think that
on their own they're enough.
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What if each of our iterations
since that time of Jesus
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leaves something
good on the table
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that needs to be recaptured?
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I've been in ministry
working at churches
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since I was 17 years old.
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And maybe the purest
example of church
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that I've ever experienced
didn't happen on a stage.
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It happened in a
home around a table.
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That's what I want for you.
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This Journey is all for
naught if we can't figure out
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how to do these proven practices
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in the context of community.
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So this is my wife,
Rachel. She's amazing.
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She leads a lot of the work
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that happens in our
Crossroads Anywhere space.
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And she's, frankly,
like the leader
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that I want to be
when I grow up.
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But we also got to walk
through this thing called,
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man, figuring out community
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and how it happens
around our table together.
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And I wanted you to hear
from her directly about that.
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- Yeah. So, we were
newlyweds, I think,
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and we were doing
this study at Crossroads
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where you're supposed
to actually practice
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the thing you were
reading. Crazy.
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- Crazy.
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- So, we got to the part
about the early church
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and how they met around tables.
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And somebody specifically joked,
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"So, when are we going to
start meeting together daily?"
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And we're all like,
"Ha ha, yeah, right,
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nobody has time for that."
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And then we're like,
"Okay, how about weekly?"
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So, we start this weekly dinner.
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We're super excited about it.
You love to cook.
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We thought we would bring
all our friend groups together
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and everybody would just click.
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- We would align, like,
everybody's crazy schedules
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would align around our
schedule at our house.
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It'd be really
convenient and beautiful.
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- Yes. And so, we sent the
emails, texted everybody,
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cooked a big dinner
and waited and waited,
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like, they're just late.
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And like, literally
no one showed up.
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Nobody came to our first one.
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- It was so sad.
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- It was, you know, you
can give up at that moment,
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but we were just like,
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okay, maybe we've just
got to do it differently.
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And so we started experimenting.
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And I think we started
letting go of the idea that,
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okay, everything's
going to align perfectly
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with our favorite people.
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And we're just like,
maybe we just do the thing
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and see what it needs
to be, like, who needs this
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versus, like, what do we need?
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And we just started.
We just kept doing it.
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We just kept opening our
home and to see who showed up.
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So, the first people
to really commit
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were our friends Matt and Katie.
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And they just start
coming every single week.
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Like, literally, I think
they came every week
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- for like four years.
- Yes.
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- They never missed.
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They had multiple
children during this time.
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And it was amazing.
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And just having those two
other people as the anchors
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of the group up
front made it great.
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And then slowly more
people just start to come.
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So, the next person
was our friend, Anissa.
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She was our neighbor.
She lived upstairs.
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She seriously saved the
group because she taught us
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really early on that it wasn't
an entertainment thing,
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it was a hospitality thing.
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And the biggest way she
did that was just by helping
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Like, she's from Libya,
so she's from a culture
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where like eating at
big tables, big meals,
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lots of people is normal.
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And so she was just
always the first one to,
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like, get up and help
us clean the dishes
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so that actually
when people left,
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our house was cleaner
than before they came here.
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- Hear us on that.
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When we finished a dinner
for a boatload of people,
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our house was
cleaner than we started.
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I know it sounds miraculous,
sounds too good to be true,
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but just find yourself a
person like Anissa is amazing.
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- Yes.
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And she would just
drop off 10 lb bags of rice
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at our door because we
were always just trying
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to figure out cheap ways
to feed a lot of people.
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And she would literally
wash all the dishes
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and hand people brooms.
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And then people just
started following her lead,
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like, they would just
start doing that, too.
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- And there was, like,
what started as a meal
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for our friends grew into
a meal for not our friends
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and sort of, like,
a surrogate family.
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Like, that was
one of the trends.
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It was like people who
either didn't have community
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nearby or didn't
have community at all,
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they were drawn to this thing.
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And it became a really
special thing where God
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was just a natural part
of the conversation.
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It wasn't a
program, like, but it --
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really amazing stuff happened.
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Talk about, like, some of
the good stuff that came
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in that season and
we didn't expect.
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- Yeah, like there was no
content. It was just dinner.
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But over time, just, I think
just the nature of people
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showing up for
each other over time,
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and at least most of
the group knowing God.
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When somebody needed
something, we would just help.
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Like, something would
come up around the table
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and we'd say, "Well, hey,
well, we'll pray for that,
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or can we actually help
you with that this week?
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Like, can we come around you?"
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And, you know, we baptized
somebody in our bathtub.
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We had some friends that
were struggling financially,
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like, really bad.
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It was amazing
that they always knew
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they just had a place
to eat, you know,
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they just had a
place that they knew
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they were going to get good
food at least once a week.
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We would send them
home with leftovers.
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It was just easy and
natural and it wasn't weird.
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If somebody had any need,
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they didn't have
to fill out a form
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and wait for the church
to get back to them
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because they were just
already with the church.
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You know, if they
had a God question,
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they didn't have to ask a
stranger or wait for a pastor.
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They would just
ask somebody there.
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People started growing in
their faith, and having friends.
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And, you know, it's funny,
this was years ago now,
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this exact group.
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But we've been struck
lately as we've been adopting,
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like, the main people
who are showing up for us,
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helping us adopt are all
our friends from that time.
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Like, they're the first
ones to start donating,
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to start talking to us
about it, start helping
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because it really did
just become a family.
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It was a random group of people
who did not know each other,
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but just started eating
together every week
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00:15:08
and became some
of our best friends.
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00:15:10
- Yeah.
- There were definitely
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00:15:11
some nights that we
didn't want to do it.
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00:15:13
Like, community
is not always fun.
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00:15:15
Like, to think of
something every week,
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00:15:16
that feels exhausting just
to think about sometimes.
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00:15:19
- It was daunting.
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00:15:20
- Even in the moment,
it is sometimes,
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00:15:21
like, there are plenty of
nights where we thought,
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00:15:23
"Oh, maybe we
should just cancel."
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00:15:25
But I actually think
the weekly-ness
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00:15:28
is what makes it good because
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00:15:29
that's where our
relationships could grow.
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00:15:31
Like, even if we
were super tired
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00:15:34
before people came over,
after they left, we weren't.
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00:15:36
We felt better, like,
we felt more connected.
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00:15:38
We felt more energized.
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00:15:40
We had -- because we had people.
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00:15:42
And like, we all just
need people to grow.
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00:15:44
We need people to,
you know, cheer us up.
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00:15:47
That's -- I feel like that's
always what happened,
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00:15:49
Like, even on the nights
that weren't the best.
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00:15:51
- Right.
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00:15:52
- There's still something
that happens in community
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00:15:54
that fills you up.
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00:15:55
- And ours isn't the
only example of this
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00:15:58
that we've seen.
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00:15:59
Like, people out of
our open house dinner,
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00:16:01
they started their own.
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00:16:02
There were brunches.
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00:16:03
There were other
really cool examples of
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00:16:06
open, accessible community.
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00:16:08
And actually I just
heard of one this week
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00:16:11
that I want to
highlight right now
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00:16:13
and want to introduce
you to a friend of mine,
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00:16:15
Damanuel and his
Friday night dinners.
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00:16:19
- All right. Hey,
this is Damanuel.
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00:16:22
Damanuel's the
man, and he's, like,
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00:16:24
well, let me just
tell you a story
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00:16:25
to help you get
to know this guy.
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00:16:27
So, you remember the
pandemic when the rest of us
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00:16:29
were, like, face first
into a bag of Cheetos?
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00:16:32
We were just, like, sad eating?
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00:16:33
Like, yes, you
remember that? Okay.
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00:16:35
Well, Damanuel was not that guy.
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00:16:37
He instead was --
What were you doing?
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00:16:39
Calling who?
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00:16:40
- Calling all of my
contacts on my phone.
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00:16:43
- Every single person.
- Every single person's phone.
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00:16:45
How many how many contacts
do you have in your phone?
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00:16:47
- It was like, it was over 1000.
- Oh, my gosh.
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00:16:50
That's giving most of us
social anxiety just hearing it.
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00:16:53
He called over 1000 people,
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00:16:54
some of whom you
hadn't talked to in...?
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00:16:56
- In years.
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00:16:57
- Like, your buddy Phil
from, like, second grade.
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00:16:59
- Yeah.
- Yes. Okay.
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00:17:00
- Just to see how they're doing.
- Right.
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00:17:02
- I heard that story.
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00:17:03
I was like, we have
to hire this guy.
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00:17:04
Like, I don't even know
him, but he's amazing.
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00:17:06
- So, Damanuel is just,
he's just a connector.
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00:17:09
Like, that's just who he is.
He loves people.
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00:17:11
He loves seeing
them get connected.
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00:17:14
So, Damanuel, I wanted to
have you here to talk to us
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00:17:17
about what it looks like
for people to get connected
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00:17:19
here at Crossroads.
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00:17:20
- Yeah, we have 100
groups around here
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00:17:23
in the local space
and in your own cities.
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00:17:26
And we want to help you
get connected in those places.
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00:17:28
So, we have some
people that are in Indiana,
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00:17:31
we have some
people that's in Texas.
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00:17:32
We want you to get
connected with people.
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00:17:34
And so, if you are
looking forward to a group
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00:17:37
or people around
you, shoot me an email
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00:17:39
and I can help you
out with filling that out
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00:17:41
and getting people around you.
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00:17:42
And so, I love connecting people
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00:17:44
and I love getting
people to know each other
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00:17:46
and to grow in the
next place together.
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00:17:49
- We have like 28
regional leaders, right?
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00:17:51
They're everywhere.
It's amazing.
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00:17:52
- D, man, tell us about
Friday night dinners.
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00:17:54
Tell us about how
that got started,
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00:17:56
what it looks like for you guys.
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00:17:57
- Yeah, so one of my
closest friends, Megan,
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00:18:01
had this dream after she
moved back here to Cincinnati
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00:18:04
to open her house and just
have people over for a meal.
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00:18:07
And so, because she
knows that through COVID
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00:18:09
I loved to cook.
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00:18:10
And she's like, "Hey, can
you come cook for us?"
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00:18:12
And I'm like, "Yeah."
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00:18:13
So every Friday night
we have a different theme.
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00:18:16
So, in the clip,
there is a video of me
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00:18:19
cooking for a tropical dinner.
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00:18:21
So, I had to cook something
up some kabobs and some stuff.
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00:18:25
And so, it was really
fun just to actually
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00:18:28
get to be a part of that
because as I'm cooking,
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00:18:31
I get to have a
conversation with people
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00:18:32
just over as I'm cooking
and people love to help.
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00:18:35
And so through that, I
get to have a conversation
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00:18:37
of, like, how are you doing
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00:18:39
and how can I be praying
for you along the way?
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00:18:42
And so, I get to do
a check in just while
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00:18:44
I'm the cook at
Friday night dinner.
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00:18:45
So, it's been really good
to actually get connected
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00:18:48
and to understand how can
we make this somewhere,
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00:18:52
not just in Ohio, but
everywhere else?
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00:18:54
- Yeah. So, I guess
the question is, like,
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00:18:56
so what are we supposed
to do with this info?
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00:18:58
Well, like, my answer
is hopefully we make it
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00:19:00
more than just
information, right?
-
00:19:02
Like, hopefully
we do it, that we --
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00:19:05
that we use the thing that
we already have, your table,
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00:19:08
and the thing you
already have to do
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00:19:09
multiple times a day, eat,
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00:19:11
to connect and create
community. Right?
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00:19:14
So, here are three ways
you can try it for yourself.
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00:19:17
First, just grab a beer
or dinner with a friend
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00:19:20
and intentionally take
the conversation deeper,
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00:19:22
like, bridge that gap
between drinking buddies
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00:19:25
and genuine community.
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00:19:27
Second, consider starting
an open house dinner
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00:19:30
in your neighborhood, in
your dorm, in your whatever,
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00:19:32
maybe with your Journey group.
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00:19:33
We're trying to get these
going all over the country
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00:19:35
and think that they're
an amazing opportunity
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00:19:37
for a disconnected generation.
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00:19:39
Like, so many people are lonely.
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00:19:41
This is a chance
for us to connect.
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00:19:43
Thirdly, hey, I would
love for you guys to join us
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00:19:47
in our upcoming
community cohort.
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00:19:49
Like, that's 21 days to
jumpstart community in your life
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00:19:53
so that you can grow
in the area of community
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00:19:56
with teaching, with resources,
with daily challenges,
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00:19:59
and with people to
grow alongside you.
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00:20:02
It's designed to dive
deeper into, not just the what,
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00:20:05
but the how of building
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00:20:07
and experiencing
community for yourself.
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00:20:09
Now, just some call outs,
like, I know some of you
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00:20:11
are like me, you're
introverted and you're like,
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00:20:13
"This sounds rough."
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00:20:15
Or you're like, "My
schedule's insane
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00:20:17
or I don't know how to
cook or I hate brunch."
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00:20:20
I don't know.
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00:20:21
We're going to
talk about all of that
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00:20:23
in the community cohort.
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00:20:24
So, just click the link
below or follow the link
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00:20:27
and we'd love to
have you join us
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00:20:29
for our upcoming
community cohort.
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00:20:31
It's going to be
worth your time.
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00:20:32
Now, God doesn't
want you to be alone.
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00:20:35
He wants you to
connect and grow.
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00:20:37
And He gave you
great tools, like the table,
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00:20:40
that can help you do that.
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00:20:41
So, let's put that
table to use in our life
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00:20:44
and recapture some of the
beauty of the early church.
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00:20:48
Because after all, the
church isn't a building,
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00:20:50
it's people, it's you and me.
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00:20:52
It's not something we
attend on Sunday morning.
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00:20:54
It's who we are.
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00:21:08
- This is the last
week of the Journey.
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00:21:10
And hey, congratulations,
you made it.
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00:21:12
You just completed
something. That's a big deal.
-
00:21:14
We don't often
complete a lot of things,
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00:21:16
so you should feel great.
-
00:21:17
This is week five
of the Journey.
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00:21:19
And you know what?
This isn't the end.
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00:21:21
Because just like Andy
said, you can get in a cohort,
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00:21:24
you can do it.
-
00:21:25
You can take that next
step into community.
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00:21:27
- They're so great.
-
00:21:28
They're easy to fit in your
life of taking the next spot,
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00:21:30
which that's what
we want for you.
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00:21:32
This journey wasn't like,
"Hey, grow for six weeks
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00:21:34
and then, you know,
and then you're good."
-
00:21:36
It's like, get you
moving, get you going.
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00:21:38
So, keep going, keep growing.
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00:21:40
When you grow, it can
lead to you wanting to give.
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00:21:42
How about that?
- That's exactly right.
-
00:21:44
You set me up for that.
Thank you very much.
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00:21:45
You know what Kyle threw to me,
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00:21:47
because that's
what our script said.
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00:21:48
But for real, this is serious.
-
00:21:50
Giving leads to growth
because it's the one thing
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00:21:54
that takes us
outside of ourselves.
-
00:21:56
And we don't have time to
get into why we should give
-
00:21:58
and all of the
spiritual life change.
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00:22:00
So, we've set up a
page that you can learn
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00:22:02
all about that and
you can give right there
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00:22:05
at Crossroads.net/give.
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00:22:08
- We've got more for
you right here next week.
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00:22:12
- Did you know that Jesus
wants you to be happy?
-
00:22:14
He really, really does.
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00:22:16
And today I want to help
you step into a practice,
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00:22:19
the practice of celebration
that can help you
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00:22:22
experience more of the happiness
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00:22:24
that Jesus has
and wants for you.